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Another Man Down in the War Against Fathers
FatherMag.com ^ | August 22, 2002 | Roger F. Gay

Posted on 08/22/2002 6:45:01 AM PDT by RogerFGay


Another Man Down in the War Against Fathers

August 22, 2002
By Roger F. Gay

America's Most Wanted put it like this:

Catalino Morales is wanted for the attempted homicide of five deputy sheriff’s in Allentown, Pennsylvania and for failure to pay back child support.

On Saturday, morning, December 9, 2000, eight deputies in Lehigh county Pennsylvania broke into Catalino Morales' home to serve an arrest warrant charging him with failure to make child support payments. According to the deputies, Morales barricaded himself in a second-floor bedroom and fired two shots through a closed door. He then shot out a back window, jumped onto a flat roof, and onto the ground where it is alleged that he shot at a deputy. The deputy returned fire but no one was injured. Morales escaped the immediate area.

Police say Morales then entered a house in the neighborhood and held a family of four hostage for several hours. The standoff ended when one of the residents managed to wrestle the gun out of Morales’ hands and Morales fled the scene. A massive hunt ensued, including search dogs, helicopters, and Allentown police; to no avail.

On the night of June 20, 2001 a SWAT team in Hartford, Connecticut surrounded Morales in a housing complex and shots were fired. No policepersons were injured in the encounters. Morales was hit by three of 25 police bullets, permanently damaging his hand and his leg and endangering the lives of the nearby residents.

He is a father. He is a man. He is allegedly behind in making "child support" payments.

It is unlikely that the child support system will be put on trial in defense of Catalino Morales, but it should be. Under heavy influence from a profit-driven collection industry the process of determining the amount of child support ordered and enforcement practices have changed dramatically within the past fifteen years. Political corruption is rampant and obvious not only to those who have studied the system closely but to many fathers who have been forced into subjugation by it.

Millions of men are treated arbitrarily and unfairly to a degree that compromises or destroys their chance to maintain themselves, let alone get on with a normal life. Many cannot do what the system requires them to do. Add to that years of harassment and threats from a long list of strangers, including half-witted pimple-faced high school drop-outs trying to collect to make a commission and female bureaucrats, possibly former welfare mothers, who revel in the opportunity to emasculate men. There is no escape, no reason. Every politician says so. Men and women with more power than moral character constantly remind them that this is what fatherhood is all about.

Then other strangers arrive with guns and invade their homes with the intent of taking them prisoner. They are experiencing the horror of a dictatorial police state.

Catalino Morales is one of many canaries in the child support coal mines. Year after year we watch the canaries die yet the workers are not allowed to leave. Those among us who have the opportunity to communicate are morally obligated to pass the word. This system must be abandoned as quickly as possible whether the masters wish it or not.

In the early 1990s, millions of fathers first experienced the suspension of constitutional law in domestic relations courts and the transition to enforcement of arbitrary en masse central political decisions. The new system seems designed to ruin men's lives. Decisions are arbitrarily based on statistical projections that have no basis in reality. State governments are encouraged to take as much from fathers as possible in order to increase the amount of federal funds they receive. "Public-private partnerships" formed with private collection agencies that benefit from higher child support awards and greater debt. Industry representatives control much of the policy making process, including the design of most formulae used in setting child support amounts.

With so many people involved, there has been a predictable variation in reaction to the change. The early 1990s saw the rise of the fathers rights movement, class-action lawsuits, a surge in the number of appeals filed against child support orders, and new national conferences on fathers issues. State and federal politicians were lobbied constantly to fix or abandon the new laws. Members of the Washington State Legislature received thousands of pairs of baby shoes from fathers trying to make a point.

There were also reports of increases in suicide and violence. The early 1990s saw news reports of the first of the early morning raids on communities to round-up hundreds of dads to cart them off to jail. It saw shootings in courtrooms, lawyers and judges taken bloody to ambulances, and fathers barricaded in their homes surrounded by police.

In Dallas, a lawyer representing himself in a divorce case pulled a semi-automatic weapon from his briefcase and opened fire. While one father was barricaded in his home threatening suicide if police came too close, he was telephoned by a reporter who wanted to turn the conversation over to a police negotiator. Feminist groups protested, saying the government must not negotiate with terrorists. News coverage on such incidents ended. Billions of dollars were spent increasing security in courthouses.

Despite the best efforts of ordinary citizens, the system got worse. Fathers rights advocates were largely cut off from making their appeals through traditional media that continued an enormous propaganda effort against the so-called "deadbeat dads." By the mid-1990s politicians were confident that the public couldn't get enough. Child support was on the political agenda in every election year. Politicians in both parties continually promised to make life tougher for fathers and passed law after law to do so.

By the late 1990s life had become so desperate for a few divorced men (in more than one country) suffering psychologically from the loss of their children and constant harassment that they took guns into day-care centers and held children hostage. Do you now understand how it feels, they asked before being gunned down by police snipers.

Due to the enormous weight of one-sided reporting on the child support issue, many people are still quite unfamiliar with the problem. It is easy to find people who believe that errors can be corrected and orders adjusted to circumstances by a quick visit with a family court judge or through some simple administrative process. They have been brainwashed into believing that men generally avoid what are presumed to be fair and reasonable obligations to their children. It is difficult for them to understand that millions of ordinary citizens are fighting for their survival in the midst of a constitutional crisis.

The Constitution of the United States and the constitutions of the states define a system of checks and balances. Unreasonable orders are to be corrected on appeal. Unconstitutional laws are to be overturned by the judiciary. These are necessary safeguards against harmful, intrusive, and corrupt government behavior. But during the past twelve years the system has not functioned as designed. Everyone in government connected with child support, including judges, receive financial rewards for maintaining the centrally planned system and courts and prosecutors have cooperated to an amazing degree. This has created a situation in which no legal remedy for arbitrary and oppressive orders and overly zealous enforcement measures exists.

Some orders are so high as to be life threatening. They do not leave the person who is ordered to pay with sufficient income to support himself. Lives have been lost. But to create the order is not enough. Once bound, the system constantly threatens and harasses fathers who are unable to meet their arbitrarily assigned "obligations." Just give the situation more than two seconds thought. If you do not think that the system caused Catalino Morales to fire a gun and run for his life you do not pass elementary applied probability. You do not understand humans.

Unless the corruption in the system is dealt with and those abusing power and influence arrested and jailed, there will be more gunfights and more men brought down in the war against fathers. Some will no longer have the compassion for life that Catalino Morales displayed. Their instinct to fight when threatened will win out over flight. They will aim at police before firing and not relinquish their weapons to hostages. We will all be guilty if we do not hold those responsible for the child support system as we know it today guilty of conspiracy.

Copyright © 2002 Roger F. Gay


Roger F. Gay is a professional analyst and director of Project for the Improvement of Child Support Litigation Technology. He has also been an intensive political observer for many years culminating in a well-developed sense of honest cynicism. Other articles by Roger F. Gay can be found at Fathering Magazine and Men's News Daily.


TOPICS: Business/Economy; Constitution/Conservatism; Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society; Government; Miscellaneous; News/Current Events; Philosophy; Politics/Elections
KEYWORDS: childsupport; constitution; fathers; policestate
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To: Motherbear; RogerFGay; DNA Rules
"By the way, I don't think the postal service creates them so much as it hires them. :("

That supports my point -- in any given population, there are some who will, when put under sufficient pressure, crack.

It is interesting that they do not crack prior to being put through the meat grinder.

That most do not crack when subjected to unmitigated dehumanizing abuse is not in any way an endorsement of the idea that unmitigated dehumanizing abuse is good, yet, there is no shortage of people who defend a system based on unmitigated dehumanizing abuse.

It is distressing that so many putative "conservatives" do so, mouthing the words written by hard core left wing radical feminists.

181 posted on 08/22/2002 5:17:25 PM PDT by Don Joe
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To: amused
"So this is predictable and therefore partially justified?"

What an amazing remark, since that is exactly the basis of the defense of "the system" that "pressure-treats" those who crack.

182 posted on 08/22/2002 5:18:27 PM PDT by Don Joe
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To: Motherbear
The most ardent supporters of abortion are men under the age of 30. It would appear that the big problem many of these angry hyperbolic posters have is that their progeny is breathing. They seem to think that the impoverishment of women and children by divorce should be a right of irresponsible men, that the lives of the future members of our society is of no business to society.

The liberal dictum: "Allow me to be irresponsible, and I'll allow you all to pay for the consequences of my irresponsibility."

183 posted on 08/22/2002 5:19:01 PM PDT by Cultural Jihad
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To: Constitutions Grandchild
Why were you paying for her attorney's fees? That's ridiculous! I paid for it all, but then I'm ridiculous.

Unemployed females get all the breaks from the system and that's one of them.

184 posted on 08/22/2002 5:20:07 PM PDT by balrog666
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To: amused
"Actually I would like to hear your story of woe since the amount of venom you put out about this issue should make it a doozy."

Be my guest, but extend the courtesy of reading all my traffic in that post before assuming you've seen the whole picture.

"You have tried to justify the actions of a guy who held hostages by his treatment at the hands of child support collectors."

Bovina fecundis. I explained it. There is a wide gulf between explaining something and defending it.

By your brand of "logic", the Weisenthal Center is "defending the actions of the nazis."

"I hate to say it but some of you guys sound like suicide by cop candidates. And that is frightening."

You sound like you need thorazine.

185 posted on 08/22/2002 5:24:23 PM PDT by Don Joe
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To: balrog666
Unemployed females get all the breaks from the system and that's one of them.
Spoken as a true generalism. Since that statement can be proven false in certain instances, the whole statement becomes false.
186 posted on 08/22/2002 5:24:29 PM PDT by almostheaven aka MrsDrumbo
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To: amused
I hate to say it but some of you guys sound like suicide by cop candidates. And that is frightening.

As an enthusiastic non-supporter of the current laws regarding child support, this is what worries me. If these guys want to get themselves blown away by the police, fine, that just makes them Darwin Award candidates. What concerns me is that the good name of FR will be besmirched by their membership in the forum.

187 posted on 08/22/2002 5:24:45 PM PDT by Lucius Cornelius Sulla
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To: almostheaven aka MrsDrumbo
"I know that had I, as a custodial parent (who Mr. Gay would tell you is a money grubbing bitch) gone on a shooting rampage because the system and my ex were both IMHO unfair to me, Mr. Gay would undoubtedly say I got what I deserved. Well Mr. Gay, Morales got what he deserved. But you already knew that. I think you simply like seeing your name behind articles that are best left in the waste basket."

You sound like an historian.

You know what they say -- history is written by the victors.

Claims of fair equitable reasonable treatment by the divorce industry ring quite hollow when delivered by victorious women.

189 posted on 08/22/2002 5:26:43 PM PDT by Don Joe
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To: RGSpincich
Add to that years of harassment and threats from a long list of strangers, including half-witted pimple-faced high school drop-outs trying to collect to make a commission and female bureaucrats, possibly former welfare mothers, who revel in the opportunity to emasculate men.

The choir has left the building and this is pure dribble. Address the real problems and leave out the hype.

,,, I had this experience for a minimum of three and a half years. I wish it on you.

192 posted on 08/22/2002 5:30:40 PM PDT by shaggy eel
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To: almostheaven aka MrsDrumbo
Unemployed females get most of the breaks from the system and that's one of the more painful ones.
193 posted on 08/22/2002 5:30:53 PM PDT by balrog666
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To: almostheaven aka MrsDrumbo; RogerFGay; DNA Rules
"Gee, my ex's CS was just increased to $470/mo. and he's not living in his car....but he will be. LOLOL"

Yup, good thing the feminists are only looking for "fair, equitable" treatment, and have no inclination towards vindictive, punitive, confiscatory tactics vis-a-vis "child" support.

Thank you for that demonstration of feminist ethics.

194 posted on 08/22/2002 5:33:14 PM PDT by Don Joe
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To: Don Joe
Yes, I can honestly say. After 16 years, victory goes to those who operate within the system. I am quite happy with the increase in support. Thankyouverymuch. I'll be even happier if he actually pays the $470/mo. since I never saw the $100/mo.
195 posted on 08/22/2002 5:35:30 PM PDT by almostheaven aka MrsDrumbo
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To: almostheaven aka MrsDrumbo
"Face it, some ppl can't handle stress."

Oh, right. You mean like the "Gee, my ex's CS was just increased to $470/mo. and he's not living in his car....but he will be. LOLOL" type of stress?

"LOLOL" indeed.

What a vindictive little so and so.

196 posted on 08/22/2002 5:36:00 PM PDT by Don Joe
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To: balrog666
To put this as susinctly as possible. I was unemployed when my ex walked out. I got no breaks, much less most. Care to try again?
197 posted on 08/22/2002 5:37:12 PM PDT by almostheaven aka MrsDrumbo
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To: Motherbear
"I know people lose it. They still deserve to pay for their crimes."

Fine, I'll go along with that.

Now why won't you go along with making those who create the dehumanizing system of abuse also "pay for their crimes"?

198 posted on 08/22/2002 5:38:11 PM PDT by Don Joe
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To: almostheaven aka MrsDrumbo
To put this as susinctly as possible. I was unemployed when my ex walked out. I got no breaks, much less most. Care to try again?

You had an incompentent lawyer. Who's fault is that?

199 posted on 08/22/2002 5:39:21 PM PDT by balrog666
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To: Don Joe
Thank you for that demonstration of feminist ethics.
You're so very welcome. And had I wanted you to give a reasonable response, like perhaps asking the circumstances of such a modification, I'd have given you more info. I didn't for the simple fact that I knew what kind of a response it would elicit from you. Look further below that post and you'll see part of the reason. But then, as I've said, I've dealt with Mr. Gay and his likeness in many forms for many years. Ppl such Mr. Gay and his supporters only see what they want to see. No matter the circumstances, to you I will probably always be the money grubbing bitch. And I get a real good laugh out of it.
200 posted on 08/22/2002 5:39:41 PM PDT by almostheaven aka MrsDrumbo
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