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Another Man Down in the War Against Fathers
FatherMag.com ^ | August 22, 2002 | Roger F. Gay

Posted on 08/22/2002 6:45:01 AM PDT by RogerFGay


Another Man Down in the War Against Fathers

August 22, 2002
By Roger F. Gay

America's Most Wanted put it like this:

Catalino Morales is wanted for the attempted homicide of five deputy sheriff’s in Allentown, Pennsylvania and for failure to pay back child support.

On Saturday, morning, December 9, 2000, eight deputies in Lehigh county Pennsylvania broke into Catalino Morales' home to serve an arrest warrant charging him with failure to make child support payments. According to the deputies, Morales barricaded himself in a second-floor bedroom and fired two shots through a closed door. He then shot out a back window, jumped onto a flat roof, and onto the ground where it is alleged that he shot at a deputy. The deputy returned fire but no one was injured. Morales escaped the immediate area.

Police say Morales then entered a house in the neighborhood and held a family of four hostage for several hours. The standoff ended when one of the residents managed to wrestle the gun out of Morales’ hands and Morales fled the scene. A massive hunt ensued, including search dogs, helicopters, and Allentown police; to no avail.

On the night of June 20, 2001 a SWAT team in Hartford, Connecticut surrounded Morales in a housing complex and shots were fired. No policepersons were injured in the encounters. Morales was hit by three of 25 police bullets, permanently damaging his hand and his leg and endangering the lives of the nearby residents.

He is a father. He is a man. He is allegedly behind in making "child support" payments.

It is unlikely that the child support system will be put on trial in defense of Catalino Morales, but it should be. Under heavy influence from a profit-driven collection industry the process of determining the amount of child support ordered and enforcement practices have changed dramatically within the past fifteen years. Political corruption is rampant and obvious not only to those who have studied the system closely but to many fathers who have been forced into subjugation by it.

Millions of men are treated arbitrarily and unfairly to a degree that compromises or destroys their chance to maintain themselves, let alone get on with a normal life. Many cannot do what the system requires them to do. Add to that years of harassment and threats from a long list of strangers, including half-witted pimple-faced high school drop-outs trying to collect to make a commission and female bureaucrats, possibly former welfare mothers, who revel in the opportunity to emasculate men. There is no escape, no reason. Every politician says so. Men and women with more power than moral character constantly remind them that this is what fatherhood is all about.

Then other strangers arrive with guns and invade their homes with the intent of taking them prisoner. They are experiencing the horror of a dictatorial police state.

Catalino Morales is one of many canaries in the child support coal mines. Year after year we watch the canaries die yet the workers are not allowed to leave. Those among us who have the opportunity to communicate are morally obligated to pass the word. This system must be abandoned as quickly as possible whether the masters wish it or not.

In the early 1990s, millions of fathers first experienced the suspension of constitutional law in domestic relations courts and the transition to enforcement of arbitrary en masse central political decisions. The new system seems designed to ruin men's lives. Decisions are arbitrarily based on statistical projections that have no basis in reality. State governments are encouraged to take as much from fathers as possible in order to increase the amount of federal funds they receive. "Public-private partnerships" formed with private collection agencies that benefit from higher child support awards and greater debt. Industry representatives control much of the policy making process, including the design of most formulae used in setting child support amounts.

With so many people involved, there has been a predictable variation in reaction to the change. The early 1990s saw the rise of the fathers rights movement, class-action lawsuits, a surge in the number of appeals filed against child support orders, and new national conferences on fathers issues. State and federal politicians were lobbied constantly to fix or abandon the new laws. Members of the Washington State Legislature received thousands of pairs of baby shoes from fathers trying to make a point.

There were also reports of increases in suicide and violence. The early 1990s saw news reports of the first of the early morning raids on communities to round-up hundreds of dads to cart them off to jail. It saw shootings in courtrooms, lawyers and judges taken bloody to ambulances, and fathers barricaded in their homes surrounded by police.

In Dallas, a lawyer representing himself in a divorce case pulled a semi-automatic weapon from his briefcase and opened fire. While one father was barricaded in his home threatening suicide if police came too close, he was telephoned by a reporter who wanted to turn the conversation over to a police negotiator. Feminist groups protested, saying the government must not negotiate with terrorists. News coverage on such incidents ended. Billions of dollars were spent increasing security in courthouses.

Despite the best efforts of ordinary citizens, the system got worse. Fathers rights advocates were largely cut off from making their appeals through traditional media that continued an enormous propaganda effort against the so-called "deadbeat dads." By the mid-1990s politicians were confident that the public couldn't get enough. Child support was on the political agenda in every election year. Politicians in both parties continually promised to make life tougher for fathers and passed law after law to do so.

By the late 1990s life had become so desperate for a few divorced men (in more than one country) suffering psychologically from the loss of their children and constant harassment that they took guns into day-care centers and held children hostage. Do you now understand how it feels, they asked before being gunned down by police snipers.

Due to the enormous weight of one-sided reporting on the child support issue, many people are still quite unfamiliar with the problem. It is easy to find people who believe that errors can be corrected and orders adjusted to circumstances by a quick visit with a family court judge or through some simple administrative process. They have been brainwashed into believing that men generally avoid what are presumed to be fair and reasonable obligations to their children. It is difficult for them to understand that millions of ordinary citizens are fighting for their survival in the midst of a constitutional crisis.

The Constitution of the United States and the constitutions of the states define a system of checks and balances. Unreasonable orders are to be corrected on appeal. Unconstitutional laws are to be overturned by the judiciary. These are necessary safeguards against harmful, intrusive, and corrupt government behavior. But during the past twelve years the system has not functioned as designed. Everyone in government connected with child support, including judges, receive financial rewards for maintaining the centrally planned system and courts and prosecutors have cooperated to an amazing degree. This has created a situation in which no legal remedy for arbitrary and oppressive orders and overly zealous enforcement measures exists.

Some orders are so high as to be life threatening. They do not leave the person who is ordered to pay with sufficient income to support himself. Lives have been lost. But to create the order is not enough. Once bound, the system constantly threatens and harasses fathers who are unable to meet their arbitrarily assigned "obligations." Just give the situation more than two seconds thought. If you do not think that the system caused Catalino Morales to fire a gun and run for his life you do not pass elementary applied probability. You do not understand humans.

Unless the corruption in the system is dealt with and those abusing power and influence arrested and jailed, there will be more gunfights and more men brought down in the war against fathers. Some will no longer have the compassion for life that Catalino Morales displayed. Their instinct to fight when threatened will win out over flight. They will aim at police before firing and not relinquish their weapons to hostages. We will all be guilty if we do not hold those responsible for the child support system as we know it today guilty of conspiracy.

Copyright © 2002 Roger F. Gay


Roger F. Gay is a professional analyst and director of Project for the Improvement of Child Support Litigation Technology. He has also been an intensive political observer for many years culminating in a well-developed sense of honest cynicism. Other articles by Roger F. Gay can be found at Fathering Magazine and Men's News Daily.


TOPICS: Business/Economy; Constitution/Conservatism; Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society; Government; Miscellaneous; News/Current Events; Philosophy; Politics/Elections
KEYWORDS: childsupport; constitution; fathers; policestate
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To: Motherbear
AH, HA! So you do believe that fathers and mothers should be able to walk away from their children without any responsibility. You aren't for fathers' right to parent (which includes obligations and benefits). You want the right to walk away from your kids.

You probably didn't know this, but anybody can easily check to see what the post says that you're responding to. As long as you're on the subject, which is a completely different subject, yes I do. Why shouldn't they be able to do that and what business is it of yours?

hahaha You are a discredit to your sex, but then I had already figured that out.

You probably made the mistake of thinking I was human.
121 posted on 08/22/2002 2:02:27 PM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: Home By Dark
I think you're only pretending not to understand that the article is about real life.
122 posted on 08/22/2002 2:04:03 PM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: RogerFGay
=>You probably made the mistake of thinking I was human.

"On the Internet, no one knows you're a dog."

Rog, I'm going to go water my yard. Try to pull together a coherent reply to the question of what should fairly be doen--more than dropping the name of the constitution--and I'll check back later to see if you can manage this.
123 posted on 08/22/2002 2:04:41 PM PDT by Home By Dark
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To: Home By Dark
The fact that you're going to water your lawn isn't going to influence my decision to stick to the subject of the thread, something I've already told you several times. It's also not going to alter the reality that I've already responded to the question several times by repeating the solution to the problem exposed in the article.
124 posted on 08/22/2002 2:07:19 PM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: Motherbear
Turn custody over to the other parent, of course. Kids deserve to have two parents, and if the parents can't get along and only one parent will be able to spend substantial time with the child, it should be the parent who is more accommodating.

Really? Just sign on the dotted line and no more child support payments? I suspect a few of the men and women screwed over by their ex's or by the courts would do that in a minute. Most probably care about their children and would pursue the needed remedies regardless of the cost. So nothing is changed for most people.

Now, I've answered your question. You haven't answered mine.

I'd put 'em in bankruptcy court where they belong and make them pay off their debts after their living expenses. Of course, that would allow those support payments to be reviewed, modified, overturned, or even reversed based on the real world economics of the situation.

Actually, this solution is just like yours except no one has to sign away their rights to get justice.

126 posted on 08/22/2002 2:11:57 PM PDT by balrog666
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To: Motherbear
Because if you want to have sex, you get the responsibility of providing for the little happy dividend that comes along 9 months later. Why should only one parent be resonsible for your little night of fun and games? I sure hope you've had a vasectomy.

That doesn't even come close to answering the question. There's nothing in it that suggests that you get to decide how other people handle issues involving their families.
128 posted on 08/22/2002 2:19:00 PM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: Lucius Cornelius Sulla
Sorry, but this is the same sort of argument that the NEA has been promoting about the AlQuaeda, we just have to understand that they are desperate, and if we had only given them justice, they wouldn't have attacked us.

And I'm sorry, but I can't quite see the relation between the NEA (a leftist teacher's guild), Al'Queda (a terrorist organization responsible for the destruction of WTC), and US Citizens being raped by a corrupt bureacracy. A bureacracy that although claiming to benefit children, many times could care less about them.

I don't think anyone here would feel sorry for Al'Queda if we nuked them off the planet. I do however have empathy for those who have been forced to acts of desperation due to a capricious and arbritary "obligation" that usually has no relation to the amount of money actually needed to support a child, or the ability of the "absent" parent to pay.

If there WERE justice and fairness in relation to the determination of child support, I would not have empathy for those who claim to not be able to pay. And yes, there ARE those who CAN pay that don't. I have no empathy for them either.

129 posted on 08/22/2002 2:19:09 PM PDT by FormerLurker
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To: RGSpincich
I forget was James Beck one of your heros too?

I forget, IS Lon Horiuchi one of your heroes?

130 posted on 08/22/2002 2:22:46 PM PDT by FormerLurker
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To: Motherbear
What part of the idea that adults get to decide things for themselves don't you understand?
132 posted on 08/22/2002 2:35:55 PM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: Motherbear
Never said no more child support payments? In my example, if dad gets custody, mom should pay child support.

What kind of i%$^t are you? Why would people sign away their rights then?

136 posted on 08/22/2002 2:46:35 PM PDT by balrog666
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To: Motherbear
Wone person says one thing, and the other person says another, a third party has to step in.

That's easy to fix without involving government. We'll all just leave you out of the conversation.

Oh, yes, I forgot. You write for FATHERING magazine, and support the right to walk away from your children. What a joke

I'm pretty much against fatherhood being defined as a subordinate element of government bureacracy. I don't see the humor in that.
137 posted on 08/22/2002 2:48:03 PM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: FormerLurker
If there WERE justice and fairness in relation to the determination of child support, I would not have empathy for those who claim to not be able to pay. And yes, there ARE those who CAN pay that don't. I have no empathy for them either.

Early in my research, I got curious about how many "deadbeat dads" there actually are. I carefully surveyed the commentary from politicians and their talking heads to define "deadbeat dad" and then looked at payment statistics. I reakoned that less than one percent of the total ncp population fit the definition.
138 posted on 08/22/2002 2:57:07 PM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: RogerFGay
=>What part of the idea that adults get to decide things for themselves don't you understand?


Probably the part about human children requiring two biological parents, and the recently vanished cultural norm that real men do all they must to take care of their children.
139 posted on 08/22/2002 3:10:00 PM PDT by Home By Dark
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To: Life of Brian
"Paying child support and PROUD of it! I love my kid and his mom is cool too."

Good for you. I am courious to know if you would still feel that way if your support payments were more than your monthly income and interest penalties were accrueing at a rate that assures you will be paying essentially everything you earn for the rest of your life?

140 posted on 08/22/2002 3:58:35 PM PDT by monday
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