That's the key.
BTW, I'm a Republican working woman, who is married. I get very frustrated when some women (and some men, to be fair) fall for the "feel good" rhetoric and don't see the hypocrisies of the Dems. Dems are some of the richest people in Congress, and I have seen them yet do anything that really helps the poor, such as getting them off welfare, becoming self-reliant, and getting a good job, while keeping most of the wages they earn for themselves.