Posted on 06/21/2002 7:01:23 PM PDT by Capriole
That's should be the priority.
Never let him near the kids.
He can request protective custody, and a lot of prison systems will put sex offenders in separate areas by default, but the word is that "if the guys in the general population want to get at you, they can". Also, if the guards dont like you for any reason, they will put you where other inmates can mess with you.
That being said, there are a bunch of sex offenders in prison, and all of them dont get messed with. The best rule is "mind your business and do your time". If his lawyer can get him to serve his time in county jail, or, better yet, work-release, he will have a lot smoother time. There is a BIG difference between most county jails and state or federal prison. Most county inmates are their for a few months, then they either get released or get sent to prison. They dont really have time to establish a territory or pecking order. Since your ex is over 40, he will get put with older inmates in most county jails. That would be better for him. The young inmates in any county jail are 98% of the troublemakers.
The bottom line is, he would be much better staying for as short a time in possible in state prison. The folks I've known who have been there always say "you dont wanna know what goes on there".
Jail will probably not be easy for him, as you know child molesters are not popular, and he may be forced to do some of the things he did to his kids and more. It's OK to feel he should be in jail, and at the same time want him to be physically safe from being assaulted. Prison shouldn't be about rape, but that's what it's become.
There's not much you can do, other than try to figure out what's happened or not with your kids and help them deal with this, and keep your head up. Good luck and God bless your children and you.
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If you want to help in any way you can pray for your ex, but it seems the only tangible thing you can do now is deal with the facts you have today and help your children get through this diffult time. Whatever your ex has to go through now, is for him to deal with. It's his burden, not yours.
And don't worry about your ex's future: "Don't worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries. Today's trouble is enough for today."
"I would love to personally escort [Enron Corp. Chairman Kenneth] Lay to an 8-by-10 cell that he could share with a tattooed dude who says, 'Hi my name is Spike, honey,' " Lockyer said.
Lockyer, who is investigating whether energy firms have manipulated prices on the wholesale electricity market, made the comment in an interview with the Wall Street Journal that appeared Tuesday.
Once again,this was uttered by the Attorney General of California!
Sorry about you finding out in such a manner.
Any child abuser/molester doesn't deserve to die a quick death.
Punishment of the most cruel and unusual type is in order.
I have no idea what is in store for your ex in prison as I have never been there and don't know anybody that has that will talk about it.
That might tell you something right there.
- Try to find out what really happened. In the case I know about "sexual assault" meant that he kissed a little girl on the leg. It's in no way appropriate but it's a long way from rape, violence, etc. This guy may or may not be the monster he's being made out to be.
- A "confession" may be dubious as well since the police often ask leading questions. I the case I know of, the guy was very drunk at the time and he thought by "confessing" he would be sent to AA or something. Your ex's lawyer may be able to get the "confession" thrown out if it's not too late.
- I don't know about Maryland, but in Florida an inmate is first sent to what you might call a "new guy camp" to try help the inmate adjust. In the case I know, the inmate was sent to a prison with an inmate population older than the average prison, but there were still some younger guys there.
Some advice for him:
- Don't tell ANYBODY why he's in there.
- Choose his friends very carefully and don't be good buddies with the guards. Don't do anything to stand out with the other inmates or with the guards.
- The person I knew died from a heart problem primarily because it was 33 HOURS before they took him to the hospital.
- Good luck and God Bless.
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