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Kindergartener's stripper-mom in church-school flap
WorldNetDaily.com ^ | Thursday, May 16, 2002

Posted on 05/16/2002 2:29:30 AM PDT by JohnHuang2

A private Christian school and a kindergartener's mother who stripteases for a living are quickly becoming the focus of the latest debate on religious freedom.

Officials of Capital Christian School in Sacramento, Calif., discovered that what they thought had been a private meeting with a mother of a kindergartner who violated her commitment to school policy had become a news story on the local CBS affiliate KOVR.

The story first came to the attention of WorldNetDaily when WND columnist Rebecca Hagelin was invited Wednesday morning to discuss the issue on CNN's popular afternoon talk show "Talk Back Live." The only information circulating at the time was a brief description of a broadcast report filed by KOVR-TV which broke the story late Tuesday evening.

The summary blurb summed up the story this way: "A mother says her daughter is getting expelled from kindergarten because mom is a part-time stripper. This is about a five-year-old girl who attends Capital Christian School in Sacramento. But her mother says when the school found out she was an exotic dancer they told her she had one week to get her daughter out of their school."

Since the school's position was entirely absent from the report, Hagelin contacted the pastor of Capital Christian Church, the sponsoring church of the school. Senior Pastor Rick Cole was clearly disturbed by the events and reluctant to discuss details. Cole did, however, agree to provide certain facts about the case that had not been disclosed by the mother when she contacted the local television station about the situation.

Although Cole did not reveal the identity of the mother or child, WND subsequently learned their identities from KOVR-TV reporter George Franco, but has opted not to disclose the names to protect the child's privacy.

Hagelin reported the other side of the story during her appearance on CNN yesterday.

"By air time Wednesday afternoon, I had secured two interviews with pastor Cole from my car phone," she said. "His greatest concern and reluctance to speak came from his desire to protect the mother and her daughter." Given that only part of the story had become national news, she added, Cole thought it important provide the rest of the story.

Cole explained that recently school officials had become aware that the mother in question works as a part-time strip-teaser dancer at a local club. Since her occupation is in violation of an agreement with and commitment to the school philosophy that parents must sign before the children are admitted to school, school officials, including Cole met the mother.

Not wanting to divulge the personal and confidential details of the conversation with the mother, Cole only briefly outlined the details of the offer officials had made the mother -- which had been left out of previous news stories.

"The school offered to waive the last month's tuition for the student so the young girl could remain in school to the end of the year if the mother would quit her job as a strip-tease dancer. They also offered to support the mother and walk 'hand in hand' with her as she worked through the spiritual issues involved and sought to better her life," said Hagelin. "The pastor believed that the meeting had been well-received by the mother, but the next thing he knew he was getting calls from the local media. I found Pastor Cole to be clearly upset that his efforts to help a woman in a very bad situation were not successful."

As a requirement for admission, parents of prospective students must sign a "commitment" to support the philosophy of the school. That philosophy, in part, reads: "Emphasis is placed on learning about God and the truths of God's Word in relationship to man and his world; recognizing that the way to God comes through personal faith in Jesus Christ; and Christian maturity comes by application of the truths of the Bible in all areas of life." In signing the document, parents agree to maintain a "partnership" with the school "regarding the standards and criteria of a Christian learning structure that involves the entire family."

"Although school officials see the mother's job as a stripper as a clear violation of her signed commitment, automatic termination of the relationship was not an option for them," said Hagelin. "The pastor and school attempted to help the mother better her life, and offered her both financial, spiritual and emotional support."

In Hagelin's interview with the pastor, he described how the role of the school differed somewhat from that of the church. While the church has open arms to all who wish to attend, he discussed how essential parental commitment is to the success of a school of 1,200 students that seeks to provide both high academic and spiritual standards for each and every student, noted Hagelin.

Reporter George Franco of KOVR told Hagelin that the mother has retained legal counsel and is considering filing a motion for an immediate injunction to have the child remain in school while the mother continues to work as a stripper.


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To: Wondervixen
I think you are missing my point. Simply, in deference to your gender, The idiot running the school Forced the problem onto the Child, by not allowing her to complete the final three weeks. An intelligent, caring CHRISTIAN person, would have let the child finish the three weeks, and told the mother she would not be allowed back.
722 posted on 05/17/2002 4:18:11 AM PDT by hobbes1
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To: BellStar
No, one of the parents went to the bars website, printed out the pics, and brought them in....
723 posted on 05/17/2002 4:19:20 AM PDT by hobbes1
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To: one_particular_harbour
I suppose you've never seen kids in a schoolyard on a feeding frenzy, pecking the hell out of the kid with the scandalous secret that just got out? I suppose you think kids won't gather around to hurl insults about what her mom does for a living at her? It makes little difference whether it's private or public school either. What with the state of our public school system, I'd think it would likely be even worse.

SHE isn't to blame because her mother chose to do what she does. She is an innocent child, but kids are cruel to one another. Most need their butts busted for some of the things they do and say to others in the schoolyard forum. If you think it DOESN'T happen, tell us where the heck YOU went to school, because it must be the only one on Earth where it doesn't happen.

724 posted on 05/17/2002 4:25:31 AM PDT by Wondervixen
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To: hobbes1
Good point. It could have been handled better.
725 posted on 05/17/2002 4:26:51 AM PDT by Wondervixen
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To: one_particular_harbour
Found a different article stating the facts more clearly. You're right. Kid was definetly expelled with a month to go. Bad move by the school.
726 posted on 05/17/2002 4:29:40 AM PDT by RGSpincich
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To: Chemist_Geek
And NBC 4 in New York is reporting that the stripper was a former Sunday School teacher at the church!
727 posted on 05/17/2002 4:31:47 AM PDT by codebreaker
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To: PuNcH; flyervet
Some of us have been there and we didn't strip to make ends meet. Some of you talk like they'd be out on the street otherwise. I wonder what car she drives.
728 posted on 05/17/2002 4:38:57 AM PDT by Prodigal Daughter
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To: Prodigal Daughter
Real estate is the worst possible job to raise a family on, IMO. I did it, I quit too. Commission only, subject to the whims of buyers, sellers, underwriters, appraisers, etc. The vast majority of those in real estate have alternate income in the form of pensions, social security, rental income and/or a spouse with a good job w/benefits.
729 posted on 05/17/2002 4:45:15 AM PDT by RGSpincich
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To: xsmommy;AppyPappy;Hemingway'sGhost
You're a lawyer. If I was a lawyer, I would tell my kids I was a stripper. Heyyyy.....how do we know that the mom isn't really a lawyer?
now, appy, i am on your side here, don't go down that path....
Xsmommy, Esq. ; )

I guess we shouldn't tell him how you put yourself thru Law Skool....


730 posted on 05/17/2002 5:06:25 AM PDT by hobbes1
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To: hobbes1
ahh....the good old days..... ; )
731 posted on 05/17/2002 5:33:56 AM PDT by xsmommy
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To: Chemist_Geek
I do wonder what pictures they have on their Web site, though...

I went to the site yesterday, and after a, ahem, search of the site I couldn't find Christina's pictures. Perhaps she strips under a different name? Anyway, I didn't want to paw through the whole site---it offers pix of probably 20/30 girls.

Soooooooooo, unless the website's already taken down her pix, Ms. Silvas strips under a different name. To know that name, I presume you'd have had to been in a place to overhear it. Perhaps Gold Coast Centerfolds? Hmmm?


733 posted on 05/17/2002 6:07:47 AM PDT by Hemingway's Ghost
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To: Hemingway's Ghost
as with the Thong thread, the stripper thread has proliferated. i read somewhere that she strips under the name samantha and there was a link also. not sure it was this thread another.
734 posted on 05/17/2002 6:09:42 AM PDT by xsmommy
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To: Darkshadow
I stand by my original assessment: she's gorgeous.
735 posted on 05/17/2002 6:14:48 AM PDT by Hemingway's Ghost
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To: savedbygrace
But we'all will jest shuffle off to the back of the bus and keep real quiet.

Thank GOD. It's about time.

736 posted on 05/17/2002 6:15:50 AM PDT by Hemingway's Ghost
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To: xsmommy
We need a new titillating/issues thread today, else I'm staying here. Work is boring.
737 posted on 05/17/2002 6:21:23 AM PDT by Hemingway's Ghost
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To: Hemingway's Ghost
i had a splitting headache from the dang thread yesterday, but i am sure that won't prevent me from monitoring it closely today!
738 posted on 05/17/2002 6:24:20 AM PDT by xsmommy
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To: Prodigal Daughter
If the stripper's daughter gets to stay at the school and she grows up to want to be a stripper, I wonder if the stripper will sue the school for not succeeding at instilling Christian values in her child.

Interesting question. Of course to do so would be ridiculous, then again she does seem to be the litigous type and lawyers will take any crazy case.

739 posted on 05/17/2002 6:38:37 AM PDT by NeoCaveman
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To: dubyaismypresident; prodigal daughter; l.n.smithee
maybe it was on the other thread on this topic, but someone, and i think it was L.N.Smithee, said that he wonders if mom isn't banking on Hefner, Flynt, Guccione getting interested and maybe she will have her daughter's COLLEGE education paid for.
740 posted on 05/17/2002 6:45:28 AM PDT by xsmommy
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