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Kindergartener's stripper-mom in church-school flap
WorldNetDaily.com ^ | Thursday, May 16, 2002

Posted on 05/16/2002 2:29:30 AM PDT by JohnHuang2

A private Christian school and a kindergartener's mother who stripteases for a living are quickly becoming the focus of the latest debate on religious freedom.

Officials of Capital Christian School in Sacramento, Calif., discovered that what they thought had been a private meeting with a mother of a kindergartner who violated her commitment to school policy had become a news story on the local CBS affiliate KOVR.

The story first came to the attention of WorldNetDaily when WND columnist Rebecca Hagelin was invited Wednesday morning to discuss the issue on CNN's popular afternoon talk show "Talk Back Live." The only information circulating at the time was a brief description of a broadcast report filed by KOVR-TV which broke the story late Tuesday evening.

The summary blurb summed up the story this way: "A mother says her daughter is getting expelled from kindergarten because mom is a part-time stripper. This is about a five-year-old girl who attends Capital Christian School in Sacramento. But her mother says when the school found out she was an exotic dancer they told her she had one week to get her daughter out of their school."

Since the school's position was entirely absent from the report, Hagelin contacted the pastor of Capital Christian Church, the sponsoring church of the school. Senior Pastor Rick Cole was clearly disturbed by the events and reluctant to discuss details. Cole did, however, agree to provide certain facts about the case that had not been disclosed by the mother when she contacted the local television station about the situation.

Although Cole did not reveal the identity of the mother or child, WND subsequently learned their identities from KOVR-TV reporter George Franco, but has opted not to disclose the names to protect the child's privacy.

Hagelin reported the other side of the story during her appearance on CNN yesterday.

"By air time Wednesday afternoon, I had secured two interviews with pastor Cole from my car phone," she said. "His greatest concern and reluctance to speak came from his desire to protect the mother and her daughter." Given that only part of the story had become national news, she added, Cole thought it important provide the rest of the story.

Cole explained that recently school officials had become aware that the mother in question works as a part-time strip-teaser dancer at a local club. Since her occupation is in violation of an agreement with and commitment to the school philosophy that parents must sign before the children are admitted to school, school officials, including Cole met the mother.

Not wanting to divulge the personal and confidential details of the conversation with the mother, Cole only briefly outlined the details of the offer officials had made the mother -- which had been left out of previous news stories.

"The school offered to waive the last month's tuition for the student so the young girl could remain in school to the end of the year if the mother would quit her job as a strip-tease dancer. They also offered to support the mother and walk 'hand in hand' with her as she worked through the spiritual issues involved and sought to better her life," said Hagelin. "The pastor believed that the meeting had been well-received by the mother, but the next thing he knew he was getting calls from the local media. I found Pastor Cole to be clearly upset that his efforts to help a woman in a very bad situation were not successful."

As a requirement for admission, parents of prospective students must sign a "commitment" to support the philosophy of the school. That philosophy, in part, reads: "Emphasis is placed on learning about God and the truths of God's Word in relationship to man and his world; recognizing that the way to God comes through personal faith in Jesus Christ; and Christian maturity comes by application of the truths of the Bible in all areas of life." In signing the document, parents agree to maintain a "partnership" with the school "regarding the standards and criteria of a Christian learning structure that involves the entire family."

"Although school officials see the mother's job as a stripper as a clear violation of her signed commitment, automatic termination of the relationship was not an option for them," said Hagelin. "The pastor and school attempted to help the mother better her life, and offered her both financial, spiritual and emotional support."

In Hagelin's interview with the pastor, he described how the role of the school differed somewhat from that of the church. While the church has open arms to all who wish to attend, he discussed how essential parental commitment is to the success of a school of 1,200 students that seeks to provide both high academic and spiritual standards for each and every student, noted Hagelin.

Reporter George Franco of KOVR told Hagelin that the mother has retained legal counsel and is considering filing a motion for an immediate injunction to have the child remain in school while the mother continues to work as a stripper.


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To: one_particular_harbour
Show me ONE verse in the Bible that says we are to "tolerate" ongoing sin. And before you say this wasn't a sin, Christians are supposed to be modest, and NOT TO BE A STUMBLING BLOCK FOR SOMEONE ELSE.
521 posted on 05/16/2002 12:04:56 PM PDT by Politicalmom
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To: Harrison Bergeron
Hey, isn't that the one that got Jesus crucified?

No.

-Kevin

522 posted on 05/16/2002 12:04:57 PM PDT by ksen
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To: one_particular_harbour
maybe she works the Day/lunch shift....
523 posted on 05/16/2002 12:05:02 PM PDT by hobbes1
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To: kjam22
. This church has acted biblically.

By condemning an innocent child, for the sins of the Mother....Hmmmm,... Curious.

524 posted on 05/16/2002 12:07:20 PM PDT by hobbes1
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To: Lord_Baltar
We're gonna Party like it's 1599...

You think dial-up connections are slow today, you should have been there when they were blazing along at 12bpw (12 bits per week). At least by 1650 they were up to 128bpw.

-Kevin

526 posted on 05/16/2002 12:08:10 PM PDT by ksen
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And I bet they didn't return the rest of the years tainted money, which, If the morality of where it came from is the issue, they should have...I mean, If we are going to be consistent....
527 posted on 05/16/2002 12:08:19 PM PDT by hobbes1
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To: hobbes1
The church has not condemned the child. You have to watch your words... because words have meaning.
528 posted on 05/16/2002 12:08:28 PM PDT by kjam22
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To: nina0113
I feel very sorry for the little girl, because that woman's got lots more problems than her cashflow. For starters, why in the world would she take this to the press? Is she perhaps looking to get letters of sympathy from the public, with a few dollars tucked inside?

BINGO!!!!

530 posted on 05/16/2002 12:08:57 PM PDT by BornOnTheFourth
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To: one_particular_harbour
The church has told the mother that her daughter can not attend the school as long as she chooses to be a stripper. The bible says that many of our choices effect our families for as many as 3 generations after us.
532 posted on 05/16/2002 12:11:18 PM PDT by kjam22
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To: one_particular_harbour
LOL!

-Kevin

533 posted on 05/16/2002 12:13:44 PM PDT by ksen
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To: kjam22
High sounding words used to rationalize punishing an innocent child for the sins of the mother.

Somehow, I missed the parts of the New Testament where Jesus whipped out his rule book and cast children into the desert.

I don't remember the passage as "Suffer the children to come unto Me, unless their mothers are strippers."

534 posted on 05/16/2002 12:13:50 PM PDT by Harrison Bergeron
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To: kjam22
Yes, they do. and Actions have consequences, this is the second time this Pastor, has, through idiotic inflexibility caused his school and parish, an enormous anmount of bad Publicity (and private schools run on dollars...).

Any person of reasonable intelligence would have handled this with a little more grace...

535 posted on 05/16/2002 12:14:43 PM PDT by hobbes1
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To: one_particular_harbour
1Ti 2:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array...

I don't believe that stripping to titillate men conforms to this standard.

536 posted on 05/16/2002 12:15:34 PM PDT by Politicalmom
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To: kjam22
The church has told the mother that her daughter can not attend the school as long as she chooses to be a stripper. The bible says that many of our choices effect our families for as many as 3 generations after us.

That's right, look what happened to Achan's and Korah's families.

-Kevin

538 posted on 05/16/2002 12:17:04 PM PDT by ksen
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To: one_particular_harbour
An Old Testament bunch of nonsense. All Judaeo, no Christian.

Yet Paul says that all scripture is profitable for learning and and teaching. Doesn't he?

540 posted on 05/16/2002 12:18:21 PM PDT by kjam22
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