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Of Macho Men, Heros and a Few Good Men

The New Macho...
Today's ideal man is tough outside, sensitive inside. In remarks after September's terrorist attacks, President George W. Bush, his voice filled with emotion, said, "I'm a loving guy," even as he fiercely vowed to avenge the "evildoers". We understood and applauded because nowadays, women want their men firm and fearless but also soft and sensitive. "I think it's a very human ideal, a balancing of the so-called feminine and masculine principles, where men and women are able to call on their internal fortitude and innate gentleness," says author Susan Faludi. Tears are no longer taboo; indeed, in a recent installment of Spiderman, the superhero broke down and wept when he saw firsthand the devastation at the World Trade Center. The bottom line: We want our men to be tough as nails and warm as toast.
~Ladies Home Journal, March, 2002

Who's Your Favorite Hero?
  • 28% say it's their spouse/significant other.
  • 10% say it's George W. Bush
  • 21% say Tom Hanks is their favorite movie hero (tied with Mel Gibson)
  • 4% say Tom Cruise is their movie hero.
~Ladies Home Journal, March 2002

1 posted on 03/18/2002 5:22:17 AM PST by Billie
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To: Billie
Good morning Billie. :) How are you today?
2 posted on 03/18/2002 5:28:46 AM PST by SpookBrat
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To: USO Canteen; Snow Bunny; Aeronaut; 68-69TonkinGulfYatchClub; COB1; DiverDave; ST.LOUIE1; lodwick...
A Few Good Men
Actually, legions of them now want to serve their country, be it in the Army, Navy or National Guard; even the FBI and CIA have reported surges in inquiries since the fall's terrorist attacks. But guys aren't just gung ho for military action. The international group Doctors Without Borders, for example, has seen a significant increase in applications, and the Peace Corps received more than 20,000 inquiries last fall--an 18 percent jump over the same period in the previous year. In both cases, roughly half of the inquiries came from men.
~Ladies Home Journal, March 2002

I don't know why they didn't mention the Marines, or the Air Force, or the Coast Guard.......but they are all heros......as well as the Special Forces, the Police Department, the Fire Department......


3 posted on 03/18/2002 5:30:50 AM PST by Billie
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To: Billie; All
Good morning everyone!

Peering out the window at the constant rain that falls here today. Oldest son is at school (first day of an all day program for autistic children). Youngest son and I are battling a slight cold. Hubby is heading out of last port call this week and will be HOME first week of April. I can't wait!

Hope everyone has a great day!

4 posted on 03/18/2002 5:31:57 AM PST by Severa
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To: Billie
My male hero is DEFINATELY my husband. He is alot like GW, tough on the outside, but not afraid to show his emotions. :) I love that! But in second place is the President. *giggle*


9 posted on 03/18/2002 5:45:22 AM PST by SassyMom
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To: Billie;Snow Bunny;The Thin Man

Looks like I'm not the only one who partied hardy yesterday.

10 posted on 03/18/2002 5:47:47 AM PST by SAMWolf
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Billie, They have only accounted for 63%. Are they subtlely saying that the other 37% swing both ways or are 'different'?
16 posted on 03/18/2002 5:51:58 AM PST by B4Ranch
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To: Billie; Snow Bunny; FallGuy; JohnHuang2; Mama_Bear; Victoria Delsoul; daisyscarlett; Iowa Granny...
In Honor of those who gave their lives and those who were gravely disabled.
Thank You Brothers and Sisters for your sacrifices.

And Thank You to ALL who have and still support our Armed Forces.

51 posted on 03/18/2002 9:36:11 AM PST by 68-69TonkinGulfYachtClub
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To: Billie
Greetings and salutations to all from Miami, Florida, where it is currently 85 degrees and sunny. Remember to bring sunblock!
90 posted on 03/18/2002 10:51:01 AM PST by Clemenza
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To: d4now; Snow Bunny; Billie; whoever; Mama_Bear; Victoria Delsoul; daisyscarlett; Iowa Granny...

191 posted on 03/18/2002 5:59:33 PM PST by 68-69TonkinGulfYachtClub
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To: Billie; Snow Bunny; all
Hello, everyone! I saw the "hero" blurb at the start of today's thread and had to post a little story that happened to me today. I know it's late, but this is worth it. It dovetails nicely.

This morning, a bright, warm North Florida day, myself, Mrs. Cut, and her parents took a drive up to Amelia Island, just north of Jacksonville. The In-Laws are in town on vacation, and were up for some sightseeing. My father-in-law, like me, is something of a history buff.

We stopped at the Fort Clinch monument, which is a coastal fortification dating from the Civil War, and is being beautifully restored. While the ladies enjoyed some rest, the men explored the Fort.

Upon entering, we were approached by an elderly gentleman in a Union Soldier's uniform(several volunteers participate in the restorations and act as tour guides and info sources). He had a big , warm smile and was quite spry despite his years. Since we were about the only ones there, we paused to chat.

He was full of information about the Fort and its times, and seemed to delight in being "in character", as it were. When he found out our military status(my father-in-law was Army back in the '60s, and I'm active duty Navy) he smiled, gave a little laugh, and showed us a little newspaper clipping he had.

It featured a photograph of him, only a year or so younger, in a different uniform-one of an Army Soldier, circa 1945. he was, the story said, recieving a Bronze Star with "V" device, for heroism during the Battle of the Bulge, which he qualified for but did not recieve at the time due to a hardship transfer to the States after that famous battle.

I looked at the small, still-smiling old man with his mischevous twinkle, and suddenly, my 6-foot 3-inch frame felt a bit smaller. I reached out and shook this Hero's hand, as did my father-in-law. It doesn't end there, however.

The old Soldier and we chatted about the current war, and we found that his spirit still had wings of eagles. He had, since 9-11, been personally responsible for locating two separate individuals ("in MAH Fort") photographing the entrances to the bay, and more importantly the OHIO-class nuclear submarines that sometimes sailed past. Neither had proper I.D.'s, and both are now in the hands of the F.B.I., courtesy of one little old man who knew what to do when you see suspicious activity during wartime.

I was honored to have met him. If you're ever there, stop in and say hello. If you are a young lady, watch out, for he still keeps his clear eyes out for "pretty wimmen". Shake his hand, for this is what a hero can look like.


199 posted on 03/18/2002 6:38:01 PM PST by Long Cut
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