xm posted the link to the New York Magazine article about Judge. The article says what was well-known among those who knew Judge -- that he was gay. What other proof do you want?
So now you're claiming to know Father Judge better than those who knew him most - the firefighters? Sorry but that doesn't fly. First of all no one has any proof that he lacked sexual attraction to women and lusted after men (that in itself would be a pretty disrespectful charge). Second of all, if he had indeed been a homosexual and gave up the lifestyle for a life of celibacy and dedication to moral values - guess what? ... that's known as 'ex-gay'. Some in the pro-homosexual camp will use the most twisted logic to demand that a celibate priest who honors his vowes is known after death (and he can't defend his reputation) as a homosexual. I never thought I would see the day that gay activists would stoop that low.