There are multiple errors in your statement
1. NATO is formed by countries who want to join an alliance for defense, to protect themselves form Russia. Russia invades non-NATO neighbors
2. NATO has bordered Russia since 1999 and not threatened Russia - that is a made up story
3. Russia bordering you means that it will aim to conquer you at some point. there was a chance in the 1990s that it could change, but that ended in 1999 with the accession of Putin
NATO’s credibility as an international organization was destroyed when it was used to engage in military campaigns that has nothing to do with defending its European member countries against Soviet/Russian aggression. I’ll cite the regime change wars in Serbia and Libya as two perfect examples of this.