Most wars have good guys and bad guys. Or bad and worse. There are cases where its arguable. In Ukraine its as clear as its ever been in any war.
History is our guide.
The argument about “instigators” is poor. This is a regular rhetorical trope of aggressors. “Its your fault, we had to do it!” goes back to, at least, Xerxes. After all, the free Greeks were “instigating” the conquered Greeks of Asia Minor to revolt, because the free ones still existed.
It ain't Ukraine's war. It's the psycho globalists using Ukraine as a front to conduct a war against Russia so they can steal all Russia's stuff.