Women have a greater eye for detail then men. At least, according to evolutionary biology, women needed to developed an eye for detail in order to find the best roots and berries to feed the family.
Imo, housework should be split according to one’s abilities. Men do the big and obvious stuff and women attend to the finer things. Housework does not have to be split on a room by room basis.
The marriages that I see fail are the 50 50 ones where either or both keep detailed records.
I am no saying g that there shouldn’t be some sort of equal yoking but the micromanagement oh my gosh!
That doesn’t explain how women can’t see the very obvious ways machines work or even the crib needs to be assembled.
“Men do the big and obvious stuff and women attend to the finer things.”
Agree, but then the women need to shut-up after all is done.