The marriages that I see fail are the 50 50 ones where either or both keep detailed records.
I am no saying g that there shouldn’t be some sort of equal yoking but the micromanagement oh my gosh!
I’m not suggesting micro-managing, tit-for-tat.
I’m just suggesting a type of division that might work best between male-female when it comes to cleaning a house.
I agree with you that these shouldn’t be measured on the scale.