There weren’t any available that I could afford.
And what has been your experience? Have you run across any issues because you’re white and they’re black? Is your circle of friends mostly white or black?
Race is a powerful component of one’s identity, a birds of a feather type of thing. Do you find that to limit the sense of closeness and bonding, especially on their part and as they get older?
It can be problematic and you know that probably and it’s not simply from assholes
It’s just complicated
It also depends where u live
Whitelandia is easier in my mind as a place to deal with it
Kids need parents and your adopted are blessed
The example I have in my extended family was to make a point by my Kumbaya relatives they are rich
And it’s been problematic
And it’s where blacks torment them
It’s pitiable to be honest
Kids need homes but as you know good intentions may not guarantee outcome
Even in birth kids
Adoption is good bad and ugly I’m not sure the stats but my family experience is mixed
I also learned something else
You are a lot of what you are by heredity
Humanist hate that except for gays
I’m ambivalent
Glad it worked for your family