I read your post out loud to my wife. It’s the same situation here in New Hampshire, except people going to mass still wear masks. It’s demoralizing.
Our church has 5 services of 1500 people no masks no distancing. We trust in God rather than Fauci.
Be happy you and your wife live in the state with the 7th lowest Deaths per million in the country. Check below for statistics on some of your other favorite states.
https://www.worldometers.info/coronavirus/country/us/