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Millennial Writer Cries, Puts Mother on Speakerphone after Editor Corrects Her Spelling
PJ Media ^ | 7-15-2019 | STEPHEN GREEN

Posted on 07/15/2019 1:18:34 PM PDT by servo1969

Full Title: Millennial Writer Cries for Mother at Work, Puts Mother on Speakerphone after Editor Corrects Her Spelling

How does a boss manage a worker who believes their feelings trump reality, right down to the way she "feels" about her misspelled words?

Gently. And probably badly, even though that's no fault of the boss in question.

Carol Blymire -- a "communications and public policy executive, branding consultant, professor, writer" -- took to Twitter on Friday to tell the story she overheard of a young writer, probably "in her late 20s," going over edits with her boss.

They had been speaking in low tones, but their volume got louder toward the end of the conversation because the young woman was getting agitated about a particular edit.-- Carol Blymire (@CarolBlymire) July 12, 2019

What issue caused mentor and student such agitation and aggravation? Had the boss been needlessly cruel? Had the young writer pushed some radical agenda, and was refusing to tamp it down a bit? Hardly. They were arguing over how to spell "hamster." You know, the little furry rodents some people keep in one of those winding Habitrail cages.

The young woman kept saying, "I don't know why you corrected that because I spell it with the P in it." The boss said (calmly), "But that's not how the word is spelled. There is no P in hamster."-- Carol Blymire (@CarolBlymire) July 12, 2019

Young woman: "But you don't know that! I learned to spell it with a P in it so that's how I spell it."

The boss (remaining very calm and professional), let's go to https://t.co/n2ZU5Uuuy3 and look it up together.

(mind you, this is a woman in her late 20s, not a 5th grader)-- Carol Blymire (@CarolBlymire) July 12, 2019

Can you guess what happened next? The young woman, according to Blymire, "insists she doesn't need to look it up because it's FINE to spell it with a P because that's HOW SHE WANTED TO SPELL IT."

The boss says, "Let's look over the rest of the piece so I can explain the rest of my edits."

They do, and I can see the young woman is fighting back tears.

The boss is calm, cool, and handles this with professionalism and empathy.-- Carol Blymire (@CarolBlymire) July 12, 2019

You might think at this point that the writer would have taken a cue from her boss, and engaged herself with the same calm, cool, professionalism. Actually, at this point in the story you wouldn't think that at all, would you?

And you'd be right not to:

Boss gets up from table and goes to her office and the young woman can barely hold it together.

She moves to another table in the common workspace area, drops all her stuff loudly on the table top, and starts texting.

A minute later, her phone rings.-- Carol Blymire (@CarolBlymire) July 12, 2019

Our young hero (in her own mind only), had apparently texted her mother for support in this Hampster Crisis, and her dutiful mother called her right up. If one of my kids had called me or my wife in a similar situation, I know exactly what either one of us would have said.

"It's spelled 'hamster.' Now go apologize to your boss for causing a scene."

I imagine if you'd read this far, you'd have given similar advice. I also imagine that you're already certain that's not what happened here.

The young woman put her mom on speakerphone, "IN THE WORKPLACE," as Blymire caps-locked for emphasis, and what happened next would be funny if it weren't so sad.

The mother tells her that her boss is an idiot and she doesn't have to listen to her and she should go to the boss' boss to file a complaint about not allowing creativity in her writing.-- Carol Blymire (@CarolBlymire) July 12, 2019

The young woman kept saying, "I thought what I wrote was perfect and she just made all these changes and then had the nerve to tell me I was spelling words wrong when I know they are right because that is how I have always spelled them."-- Carol Blymire (@CarolBlymire) July 12, 2019

Feelings trump reality. Misspelling words is "creative."

The call ended, Blymire wrote, with the writer asked her mom if she should take the matter over her boss's head: "I mean, I always spell hamster with a P, she has no right to criticize me."

Blymire added that "her boss seemed as dumbfounded through the conversation as I was in overhearing it." But being dumbfounded was limited to the person who overheard the whole silly scene.

I think I was most perplexed by the insistence of wanting to spell something the way she wanted to because SHE WANTED TO, ignoring the fact that there are rules and dictionaries.

And seeming offended that anyone would suggest the use of an outside resource as reference.-- Carol Blymire (@CarolBlymire) July 12, 2019

Indeed.

Apparently what Blymire overheard is no isolated case.

I asked a colleague about it, and he relayed a story about the time he gave an early 20something feedback on a writing assignment.

The young man quit the next day and had his parents call to tell him what a terrible boss he was for "correcting work that didn't need corrected."-- Carol Blymire (@CarolBlymire) July 12, 2019

This is Generation Participation Trophy, has been set loose on the private sector where, to quote Dr. Raymond Stantz, "they expect results." They even -- as outrageous as this sounds -- expect their writers to use proper spelling. And to listen to their editors when they do a little editing.

One can only hope this sort of muddle-headed nonsense is limited to the liberal arts vocations. Nobody wants to drive across a bridge built to some Millennial engineer's feelings about what won't collapse.

When you meet a dog who flinches from being petted, you can be pretty sure they're abused at home. When you run across an adult-aged human who can't take constructive criticism, you can be pretty sure they never got any from their parents, or maybe even not from their teachers. But the saddest part of this tale is that no one ever loved this young woman enough to provide her the guidance and discipline everyone needs to cope in the real world.

UPDATE: Fausta Wertz commented at Facebook, "Fire her sorry butt."

And you know what? That might just be the tough love she needs.


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To: servo1969
I get the same thing grading college papers. I've got a guy now who complains is he gets anything other than a 100%. On his last paper he forgot to indent half of the paragraph and he NEVER uses apostrophes appropriately.
101 posted on 07/15/2019 2:56:04 PM PDT by Mr.Unique (The government, by its very nature, cannot give except what it first takes.)
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To: Responsibility2nd

Havent seen the dancing baby in a while..


102 posted on 07/15/2019 2:57:14 PM PDT by Chickensoup (Voter ID for 2020!! Leftists totalitarian fascists appear to be planning to eradicate conservatives)
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To: Red Badger; Gamecock; SaveFerris; PROCON; Army Air Corps; KC_Lion; redshawk

103 posted on 07/15/2019 2:58:15 PM PDT by Larry Lucido
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To: Mr.Unique

You mean ‘He NEVER uses apostrophe’s appropriately’.


104 posted on 07/15/2019 2:58:40 PM PDT by steve86 (Prophecies of Maelmhaedhoc O'Morgair (Latin form: Malachy))
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To: servo1969

Some lucky guy will have an **unbelievable** wife.


105 posted on 07/15/2019 3:04:41 PM PDT by gogeo (The left prides themselves on being tolerant, but they can't even be civil.)
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To: Responsibility2nd

How about Gruene?!! Lol!


106 posted on 07/15/2019 3:06:59 PM PDT by smvoice (I WILL NOT WEAR THE RIBBON)
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To: steve86

Its a sure thing that he wont.


107 posted on 07/15/2019 3:14:03 PM PDT by Mr.Unique (The government, by its very nature, cannot give except what it first takes.)
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To: ImJustAnotherOkie

Rofl!


108 posted on 07/15/2019 3:14:12 PM PDT by CodeToad ( Hating on Trump is hating on me and Americans!)
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To: HotHunt

I worked 2 1/2 years in Peru...loved it. Also lived and worked in Chile...I always maintained that if I would have stayed in Peru, I would have been fluent in Spanish.

Years of the weird Chilean version of Spanish arrested my development...I maintain!!
I also spent two years in Argentina, and they seem to be in competition with Chile as to who can speak the worst Espanol. (I don’t have the tilde key on my computador...lo siento).


109 posted on 07/15/2019 3:14:27 PM PDT by Cuttnhorse (Never fear the cow)
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To: Red Badger; Gamecock; SaveFerris; Big Red Badger
Is anybody here a rodent biologist?


110 posted on 07/15/2019 3:19:54 PM PDT by Larry Lucido
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To: servo1969

From now on, I’m going to spell it with a p.


111 posted on 07/15/2019 3:23:47 PM PDT by fruser1
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To: Responsibility2nd
"Texas is good at weird names and weird pronunciations."

Try Louisiana.

112 posted on 07/15/2019 3:24:00 PM PDT by Wonder Warthog (The Hog of Steel and NRA Life Member)
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To: servo1969

i’m pretty sure that a requirement for correct spelling is racist, xenophobic, AND misogynistic ...


113 posted on 07/15/2019 3:25:28 PM PDT by catnipman (Cat Nipman: Vote Republican in 2012 and only be called racist one more time!)
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To: Mr Ramsbotham
“swimming pool.”

Sign at pool....."Welcome to our -ool, there is no "p" in it. Please keep it that way."

114 posted on 07/15/2019 3:26:04 PM PDT by Wonder Warthog (The Hog of Steel and NRA Life Member)
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To: Cuttnhorse
Español.

There may not be a designated "tilde" key on your computadora but somewhere in the computer you can find the accents, upside down exclamation marks and tildes.

Go to your search engine and ask how to find them on your specific computer. I have a Mac and it is pretty easy to find and use them.

115 posted on 07/15/2019 3:29:12 PM PDT by HotHunt (Been there. Done that.)
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To: servo1969

This HAS to be FAKE!


116 posted on 07/15/2019 3:47:29 PM PDT by Ann Archy (Abortion....... The HUMAN Sacrifice to the god of Convenience.)
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To: SunkenCiv

“”Sounds like another budding career, headed right for the dumster.””

Not at all - she’s qualified immediately for Congress!!

We used to know someone who called a seamstress a “hemstress”....


117 posted on 07/15/2019 3:47:50 PM PDT by Thank You Rush
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To: Thank You Rush

LOL


118 posted on 07/15/2019 3:50:42 PM PDT by SunkenCiv (Imagine an imaginary menagerie manager imagining managing an imaginary menagerie.)
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To: HotHunt

I say Bing is wrong....

https://www.dailywritingtips.com/how-do-you-pronounce-often/

analogy is entirely unsupportive: no one pronounces the t in soften, listen, fasten, moisten, hasten, chasten, christen, and Christmas—so, once and for all, let’s do away with the eccentric AWF-tin.


119 posted on 07/15/2019 4:02:58 PM PDT by Thank You Rush
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To: Responsibility2nd

https://www.dailywritingtips.com/how-do-you-pronounce-often/


120 posted on 07/15/2019 4:03:32 PM PDT by Thank You Rush
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