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The male of the species... actually the male of any species need absolutely no training or influence to make a life goal of trying to reproduce in every form they can. It is primal instinct, It comes from the very root stem of the brain, they couldn’t squelch this subconscious urge if they tried. They are going to do it one way or another no matter what. The only option is are they going to create harm while doing it or not.

And it starts at 14 and lasts the rest of their lives even though we do our very best to hide the concept from them. They get the worst at the end of their lifespan when all rational thought and control eludes them such as with Alzheimer’s and Dementia. The ability to control this primal urge becomes non-existent even though they have absolutely no clue where they are or who they are.

Fish do not need to be trained how to swim. :)

I understand what you're saying, and it's a realistic observation that needs to be taken into consideration.

When I said 'rape training," I did not mean "training how to achieve penetration and ejaculation into a somewhat feminine-looking orifice." {I reckon any man, chimp or bonobo could do that.)

I meant "training yourself OUT OF any elements of social or moral maturity you might have acquired over the years, which suggest that sexual intercourse is structured for the couple-bonding of a man and a woman toward the formation of a stable family with children."

Or even "training yourself OUT OF any traces of instinctual humanity which inclines you to interpersonal rather than mechanistic satisfactions."

How-to-copulate is part of the --- well, I was going to say part of the honorable mammalian heritage, but on second thought, it probably arises in the reptile brain. You can "get" that without trying, without one rational thought.

It's relating as a human, with a human, that requires rational thought,emotional richness, moral virtue such as prudence, courage, generosity, justice, thoughtfulness, consideration. decency, even jolly good-fellowship. It's that that you'd have to train yourself out of --- that is, if you want to be a suitable partner to a mere thing, a non-sentient chattel, a household appliance. Or, alternatively, fit to rape or be raped.

I truly hope most men would not de-train to be de-humanized.

I am daily grateful for the husband I have, who is way, WAY over on the human side.