Here's one that was published just last week -- focused on food stamps in particular:
These 15 States Have the Most People on Food Stamps
It lists the top 15 states for food stamp recipients, measured by percentage of population.
Here's the list. You'll notice that most of these (9 out of the 15, to be exact) are "red" states, based on the 2016 presidential election. There isn't a single New England state among them, even though they are among the top states in the U.S. in terms of Federal income taxes paid.
1. New Mexico (20.25%)
2. Louisiana (19.05%)
3. West Virginia (18.27%)
4. District of Columbia (18.06%)
5. Oregon (17.73%)
6. Mississippi (17.68%)
7. Alabama (16.31%)
8. Georgia (15.58%)
9. Tennessee (15.55%)
10. Delaware (15.42%)
11. Oklahoma (15.3%)
12. Florida (15.20%)
13. Nevada (15.06%)
14. Kentucky (14.67%)
15. Illinois (14.6%)
Here again, this does not support your statement that blue states get less in federal funds per federal tax dollar paid. A percentage of populations says noting about the absolute number. For example I would guess there are 100 times as many people in California then in Wyoming. So 20% of Wyoming’s population 0.2% of California’s.