Go to where the good women go. It ain't foolproof, but it increases the odds.
By the same token:
How do you find the right man when the wrong men swarm?
Regards,
I suspect going where the good women go is harder for a busy lawyer, hence the resort to a dating website. I’m in a much different position, married for many years and not looking, but I’ve been young, rich, and single, and actively working not to make my precise financial status obvious (while also making it clear that I had a comfortable, steady income).