I suspect going where the good women go is harder for a busy lawyer, hence the resort to a dating website. I’m in a much different position, married for many years and not looking, but I’ve been young, rich, and single, and actively working not to make my precise financial status obvious (while also making it clear that I had a comfortable, steady income).
Undoubtedly you are correct about that. Still you makes yer choices and you takes yer consequences. It’s the way of the world.