i’m shocked i tell you...
sexual harassment only affects those who’s price is not met...
All of Life is a, ‘barter’ in one form or another, for men and women. Some are simply dealt a better hand of cards, or are more skillful at playing them. ;)
With a title like that, I can just imagine what this thread is going to shape up as...
No one who is rich enough to own a soccer team can be unattractive.
As a society, we need to encourage both sexes to become comfortable with who they are naturally and all the messy, uncomfortable, stumbling, tantalizing, and glorious twists and turns that come with it. Men and women need to show each other grace and respect as they engage as sexual beings in whatever sphere they interact.Men and women need to show each other grace and respect as they engage as sexual beings in whatever sphere they interact.
It would help if we assumed the best of each other instead of the worst. Let men love a woman’s beauty, and let a woman delight in a man’s competence and success. This is part of the dance between the masculine and the feminine, and we’d be miserable if we stopped it.
Exactly. Instead, our perverse, sodomized, leftist culture demands that we all assume the worst of each other.
Very true. It's genetically hard-wired in us.
Women want to get the most "fit" man they can. Men strive to demonstrate "fitness" (as shown by status and wealth) in order to attract the most desirable women ("Beauty" is an indicator of health and physical fitness. Men prefer younger women because they have their best reproductive years ahead of them).
Even in homosexual relationships there are masculine and feminine roles and they too revolve around sex appeal and power. It’s ridiculous to hope, or expect, to quash this dynamic. I suspect the other 57 genders also have some version of this same animation.
Some harlots are day workers. Some like lifetime benefits.
The strong sexual attraction, reaching into unwantedness, impoliteness, injurious force, is because Mother Nature can’t afford for one of her species to disappear because they didn’t mate.
I see it in simple terms. If you do something to someone that they don’t want, that’s a bad thing and you’re being bad. If you seek to attract someone in order to take advantage of them, that’s also a bad thing and you’re being bad.
Having such people in leadership positions is an especially bad thing.
Any man in a position that meets one on one with any woman is in jeopardy at any time in the future. Any allegation presented by a woman is accepted as gospel and there is no defense.
BECAUSE EVERYONE KNOWS WOMEN DO NOT LIE!
This article rings true with me. I’m 55, divorced, a lawyer. I’m on a dating website. It cracks me up how many attractive women twenty to thirty years younger than me send me messages asking me to text them.
I’m not the hideously ugly troll boy, conversely, I’m also not the bronzed god of masculinity standing astride the harbor of femininity like a huge sexual colossus, but come on - what could they possibly have in common with me that would make me attractive enough to email me their phone number and ask me to text them?
Don’t answer. I already know.
I'm not so sure about that. If the only reward for being the top attorney in town is denting the ego of that jerk Eddie Smith from law school, we would probably rather stay home on the couch watching the Giants. :)
I think the word “”allegation”” (keyboard on the fritz) is vastly misunderstood. I think “facts”’ have become irrelevant and non-existent in this poorly educated nation.
The allegations women have put forth are not worth a penny if there is no proof. There is no proof because virtually none of the hundreds of women alleging sexual misconduct of men ever went to the police.
What is wrong with us as women? ...I think it is because we love to tease and be desirable to men. There is virtually no end to it either...just look at our clothing and makeup...to what end do we use it? To look good to other women? I don’t think so. And our girl children? What do they really look like, make-up at 8, scanty clothes at 10? Come on...they are not “mini-women”!
I don’t understand the fury years later when the games women play went awry years before...revenge?
Maybe we ought to rethink our roles in this modern world. I don’t want to look like a man or a doll or a whore. I want to look like “”me””. I want my sense of humor, compassion and intelligence to be appreciated...not my body (at least not immediately).
So thankful for all the angst I missed in the courtship rituals by finding my girl when she was 14, me 17, and now 51 years later still my girl. Sure there were some nasty bumps along the way, but those were rolled over long ago. Wouldn’t want to try todays totally confusing mating dance rituals.
There are many ‘truths that shall not be spoken’ nowadays — about women, blacks, queers, muzzies, global warming, etc. It really doesn’t help us.
I wrote this post just yesterday regarding a liberal feminist who said: "...At bottom she views people as biologically equal..."
This is at the root of much of the insanity, stupidity, and unhappiness we see in society today. Men and women are so different in so many respects, not just biologically, but intellectually and emotionally as well, that if aliens came to earth they might well see us as different species.
This is not to say men are "better" than women, or women are "superior" to men, because each sex has their strengths and weaknesses. It is the one of the wonderful things about men and women, that we compliment each other so well. It encourages union and propagation of the species, and is meant to do just that. Together, the union of men and women make an entity far more powerful and emotionally satisfying than either of them can achieve separately.
Worse, to adopt this view that the sexes are biologically equal, one has to discount the power of sexual urges and attractions, which are perhaps two of the most powerful driving forces in nature. It is INSANITY to discount those, and damages both men and women and fills us with a cognizant dissonance when we try to pretend it isn't so.
I was at a business Christmas party last night. A female friend greeted me with a big hug. I quipped that we’d better stop or I might be charged with sexual harassment. She smile and said “I certainly hope so...”
Traps...are...everywhere...
