I have some lovely antiques.
Only one out of the four are interested. He will get them all and the house too.
The others haven’t wanted anything. Money seems to be their focus.
The one thing I don’t have.
I solved the issue long ago......if any of my kids want something when I’m gone they tell me and I write their name in it or if furniture tape to the bottom. I have a good size library and one wants the books. Another wants sentimental type things.....
So this works for me.