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Vanity: Honest Obituary of Heroin Addict
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Posted on 03/29/2017 7:15:49 PM PDT by TigerClaws

Isabella Marie Sammartano

With deep sadness we mourn the sudden passing of our dear daughter Isabella (Bella) Sammartano, age 20, who succumbed to her battle with addiction and died from a heroin overdose in our home on March 24, 2017. Showing strength, determination, and a love for life, Bella lived clean for the last 16 months before her sudden relapse last week, succumbing to this terrible disease, now an epidemic and taking far too many of our loved ones from us every day.

Bella will be remembered as intelligent and full of love, conviction, empathy, and with a sense of humor well beyond her years. Bella loved her family first, and here at home was where she felt safe and truly loved. Her empathy for others knew no bounds, and Bella was always quick to come to the defense of others. Bella loved the outdoors, the woods, and all the animals that lived there. She loved bones, fossils, rocks, feathers, mushrooms, and was generally in reverence of everything in the natural world. Bella could be found exploring the woods, observing nature, and reflecting on the science of things with a passion. Bella was also a talented artist who though secretive and modest about her abilities, was occasionally proud to share her amazing sketches with her family or closest friends.

After graduating from Kirkwood High School in 2014, Bella soon found herself struggling with the disease of addiction, and entered a number of recovery facilities in Minnesota, California, and Missouri, before returning to her Kirkwood home in 2016 and to her supportive and loving family. Here she attended St. Louis Community College at Meramec receiving the highest grades, making Dean’s List last semester, and where Bella was preparing herself for a future in the biological sciences. Bella had dreams. She spoke of graduate school and of working in a lab someday, and all of this seemed possible until her life was tragically cut short last week.

Bella is survived by her devoted and loving mom and dad, Christy Hathaway Sammartano and Dan Sammartano, and her adoring sister Francesca (Frankie) Sammartano, all of Kirkwood, Missouri. She also leaves behind her loving grandmother Carolyn Clark (Grandma Lyn) of Turners Falls, Massachusetts, and a loving and supportive family of Aunts, Uncles and cousins in Missouri and Massachusetts. These include her Aunt Valery Griffin (Uncle Pete) of Gill, MA, uncles Michael Hathaway (Katherine Mitchell) and Matthew Hathaway (Jessica Hathaway), of St. Louis, MO, and her uncle Chris Sammartano (Ann Fitzgerald) of Ipswich, MA. She also leaves her cousins Lexi Griffin of Gill, MA, Cooper Sammartano of Ipswich, MA, and Lucy, Romy and Ivy Hathaway all of St. Louis, MO. She also leaves behind her loving godmother Missy (Michel) Lewis, and “Aunt” Angela (Buckley) Martin, both of St. Louis. Bella is also survived by a lifetime of schoolmates, close friends, and people she came to know in and out of recovery.

Visitation: A Visitation will be held for the public at Bopp Chapel in Kirkwood, on Thursday, March 30, 2017 between 4:00 and 8:00 PM. A private service will be held in Massachusetts for close family.

Bella was a strong-willed woman choosing to fight the addiction her own way, but who would ultimately succumb to this terrible disease. It’s her family’s hope that her passing will bring awareness to heroin addiction as a treatable and organic disease, and to drug proliferation in our communities and homes. In honor of Bella’s short and wonderful life, please consider a donation to the Harris House Foundation, harrishousestl.org.


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To: cornfedcowboy

Indeed


121 posted on 03/30/2017 9:14:06 AM PDT by Nifster (I see puppy dogs in the clouds)
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To: VTenigma

Not at all.

You still blew off my experience and training

Have a good day


122 posted on 03/30/2017 9:14:57 AM PDT by Nifster (I see puppy dogs in the clouds)
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To: Drew68

Glad you found relieve. Enjoy the journey


123 posted on 03/30/2017 9:16:23 AM PDT by Nifster (I see puppy dogs in the clouds)
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To: cornfedcowboy

well, please don’t charge my insurance premium with your over weight weakness. Over weight is a disease?


124 posted on 03/30/2017 9:49:49 AM PDT by WENDLE (The key is criminal prosecution of sanctuary city officials-- BIG TIME.)
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To: Nifster

Please go back and reflect on your first post to me and tell me you didn’t do to me what you are accusing me of. I call that projection and liberals are famous for it. Good day.


125 posted on 03/30/2017 9:55:38 AM PDT by VTenigma (The Democrat party is the party of the mathematically challenged)
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To: VTenigma

Thanks for answering my questions and responding to me experience and training


126 posted on 03/30/2017 11:26:56 AM PDT by Nifster (I see puppy dogs in the clouds)
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To: TigerClaws
This needs to end.

I don't care if we have to go Singapore to get it done.

127 posted on 03/30/2017 11:28:39 AM PDT by riri
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To: riri
I don't care if we have to go Singapore to get it done.

Ask Iran how effective executing junkies is. They have of the highest rates of heroin addiction in the wold.

128 posted on 03/30/2017 12:48:47 PM PDT by Drew68
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To: WENDLE

Not trying to start an argument but I think the reason that addiction is considered a disease is because there is some genetic disposition for it. Just like there is a genetic disposition for some cancers.

For instance, all of my siblings can take or leave alcohol except my brother. He is a recovering alcoholic who has been through rehab. My dad was an alcoholic, and I believe my brother was genetically affected.

The same with opioids. I have had opioids numerous times for various reasons. Never was hooked, in fact I can’t stand taking them. Yet some people use them for treatment of some injury/surgery once and they are addicted. Those people have a propensity for opioid addiction. It’s not because they have flawed morals or are weak-willed.

Again, not trying to start an argument. Peace to you, FRiend.


129 posted on 03/31/2017 5:48:41 PM PDT by Reddy (B.O. stinks)
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To: Reddy

That is interesting conjecture but totally unfounded in any evidence. Are you saying that we can identify an Oxycontin gene? Is that chromosome identified? Do you have a number. For example , color blindness is the 10th Chromosome. What is the FAT chromosome? Are you into Genome analysis? I love that . What is the indicator for a homosexual— That is a disease , right?

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130 posted on 03/31/2017 6:48:20 PM PDT by WENDLE (The key is criminal prosecution of sanctuary city officials-- BIG TIME. where is SESSIONS?)
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To: ConservativeMind

Agreed. Addiction is not a disease. Anything you cure by will and character is not a disease.


131 posted on 03/31/2017 6:51:58 PM PDT by Vision (Evil is powerless if the good are unafraid - Reagan)
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To: WENDLE

Obviously you are not interested in a discussion. Have a great night.


132 posted on 03/31/2017 7:25:30 PM PDT by Reddy (B.O. stinks)
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To: ProtectOurFreedom
You are right about no moral leadership. But I was being taught moral relativism back in the 60’s. Also, “don't be judgemental!” was beaten into us. Things are disintegrated now that the 60’s kids are in charge. Trump is a throwback. I detested “Just say no” campaign. Most kids will mimic this mindless slogan in1st grade like mine did. But it plants an idea in an innocent mind of sin. These kids become teens who then experiment with "sin". thus the failure of government sponsored prohibiton as in the 20’s and now with a drug epidemic. Just say no is not what I consider a moral guide to life for children.
133 posted on 04/04/2017 12:05:28 AM PDT by The Westerner (Protect the most vulnerable: get the government out of medicine and education!)
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To: The Westerner

“Moral guide for children” - yes, that is exactly the point. Starting with Clinton, then accelerated greatly by Obama, our gov has pushed moral relativism, forced acceptance of perversion, and “there is no truth” to our children. They grow up steeped in it. Government can do a lot to influence the morals of a nation and especially of its children who grow up with 8 or 16 years of a particular administration’s leadership on values. It’s going to be a long, slow, tough slog to turn the nation around and the guy at the top wields enormous influence.


134 posted on 04/04/2017 6:00:08 AM PDT by ProtectOurFreedom
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