LOL
Leni
People change over time. He may have been charming to her in the beginning. Perhaps he was different at home. He may have been very nice to her. She may have egged him on too. We’ll never know.
Even the kids living in a household don’t know what the dynamics between their parents truly are.
From experience I can tell you that every person that thinks they know what happened in a home, because they were filled in all the time, generally have no idea what really went on there.