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Behind the Gay Anger there is Often Deep Pain
Townhall.com ^ | April 7, 2016 | Michael Brown

Posted on 04/07/2016 7:29:48 AM PDT by Kaslin

I had no idea who the man was, but he ended his note to me on Facebook with these words: “You’re a monster, and you do not exhibit anything near ‘Christ’ like. You are a demon. You are a plague on this earth. And that is all I have to say.”

What had I done to provoke him to such anger?

His name was John, and he made things clear in his opening paragraph: “Oh Dr. Brown. Where should I start? You sir are a quivering fool. You express hate, and vitriol towards human beings. You protect individual rights to cause harm to members of a community within the United States. Your hatred has been seen, that you can't stand the LGBT community, and that for some reason you feel that it is up to you to judge us, and save the world. Sadly sir, I have bad news for you. ITS NOT UP TO FILTH LIKE YOU. Your hate, and your ignorance, is what keeps fueling the fires, which keep this fight going.”

Writing as an openly gay man, he said, “I hope that one day you realize the world is actually a good place with the LGBT community in it. We thrive as individuals, and we are successful as a community. We strive for equal rights just as women did during the suffrage movement. We fight for equal rights just like African Americans did during the Civil Rights Movement in the 60's.”

John stated that some of the greatest artists and leaders have been LGBT, along with “some of the greatest, kindest people on the earth.” In contrast, he claimed, when it comes to Christians, “None of you exhibit peace, and love.”

Of course, if John actually knew what I believed, he would know that I’ve said many times that, in the eyes of gay activists, this is a struggle for freedom and equality and respect and that, while differing deeply with LGBT goals, I understand their perspective.

He would also know that I’ve said countless times that some of the nicest people you’ll ever meet or work with identify as LGBT.

And he would know that I tell parents whose kids come out as gay to show those kids unconditional love, even while making clear that they will not compromise biblical standards and truths.

Somehow, however, this gentleman had a very different impression of me, and this is what fueled his fire.

John wrote, “In fact you exhibit violence. You make claims that the entire LGBT community is not only infected with diseases, but that the LGBT community is a disease itself. And that we're wildly promiscuous.”

Again, wild exaggerations (although, on average, gays and bisexuals, especially males are more promiscuous than heterosexuals, but this certainly does not describe every gay man or woman).

And then this: “I live my life day to day dealing with people like you. Who would like to see my community exterminated. And removed from the earth. I have gone through beatings. Rapes. I have been drug behind vehicles. I have everything done to me that you can imagine.

“And all of those things you condone, and accept.”

This is why he called me a monster and a demon and a plague.

John actually thought that I condoned violence against gays (nothing could be further from the truth), and that I would commend those who beat up a gay man or dragged him from a vehicle.

Ultimately, we had to block him from our Facebook page because he violated our guidelines (using profanity and wishing for violence against others), with posts to others like these: “A man who supports the Kill the Gays movement however, like Dr. Brown, has no morals.”

And, “I can't wait for you to feel the physical hate that the gay community has felt. I think it's high time Christians started getting beat for who they are. Drug behind trucks. Tied to fences and left for dead. They deserve it. Filthy bigots.”

And, “You are just the same as Hitler. He said the same thing about Jews as you say about the lgbt community.”

And, “I can't wait for the Christian persecution to start. They deserve it.”

When someone asked, “John, why are you so hate filled. Can you name something that a true Christian has done to you?”, he replied, “My father, a Christian pastor beat me almost to death and dumped me in the middle of the desert. Claiming god told him to do it. He spent the rest of his life in prison.

“He was a Christian. So now it's the Christians turn. I hope they all feel as much pain as they dish out.

“His church even tried to get him out of it. Claiming ‘religious freedom.’ F--- that. F--- him. F--- Christianity. And F--- your God.”

Tragically, that says it all: Behind the seething hatred and anger, behind the false accusations and lies, is a massive open wound. The pain is raging through his words.

Of course, I have no way to verify his story, but even if it is embellished, it is representative: Many who identify as LGBT and spew venom against Christians, against God, and against the Bible have been wounded by professing Christians – by their words, their attitudes, and their actions.

And while people like John are responsible for their ultimate decisions, we do well to remember that behind the anger there is often pain, and if we respond to the anger and ignore the pain, we will not be able to help them find wholeness in the Lord.

Since early 2005, I have sought to live by the dictum of “Reach out and resist,” meaning, reach out to LGBT’s with compassion; resist the LGBT agenda with courage.

And as much as I am hated and vilified by many LGBT leaders, branded one of the nation’s most vicious homophobes (among a multitude of other epithets, many too rancid to repeat), my heart continues to go out to them, longing for their repentance, longing for them to encounter the Father’s love, and longing to see them come into the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.

May the love of God touch John, and may he come to know the Father he now reviles.

Why not offer up a prayer on his behalf?


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial
KEYWORDS: homosexualagenda; sodomy
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1 posted on 04/07/2016 7:29:48 AM PDT by Kaslin
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To: Kaslin
Writing as an openly gay man....

Not gay. A sodomite.

2 posted on 04/07/2016 7:34:25 AM PDT by onedoug
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To: Kaslin

behind anger = deep pain...Some times the editors need to think about the headlines...


3 posted on 04/07/2016 7:34:46 AM PDT by fatez (Ya, well, you know, that's just your opinion man...)
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To: Kaslin
It is amazing how, given all this hatred and desire to kill all gays, that so many gays have led very successful lives. Interesting....

Had a discussion with a black guy online about black lives matter, and he was raging about the police shooting black people. I tried to put the numbers in perspective but he was having none of it. So eventually, I just asked him "how many cops have you seen in your life?", followed by "how many times have you been murdered by a cop?"

Kind of ended the conversation, but the point was made.

4 posted on 04/07/2016 7:34:53 AM PDT by Bruce Campbells Chin
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To: Kaslin

Faggies are sooooooooo tolerant!

;^)


5 posted on 04/07/2016 7:35:10 AM PDT by elcid1970 ("The Second Amendment is more important than Islam. Buy ammo.")
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To: Kaslin

Most of the gays Ive met are deeply troubled people and transfer the hate and anger to others.


6 posted on 04/07/2016 7:36:27 AM PDT by driftdiver (I could eat it raw, but why do that when I have a fire.)
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To: Kaslin

Since their is no rational justification for queernation or the defense of ‘alternative lifestyles’ all queer advocates revert to allegations of ‘homophobia’ whenever they are faced with the truth, facts, logic, or reason. When they are unable to defend their perverse views, it’s time to play the homophobia card!
(a Joker wearing makeup dressed in gay apparel?)


7 posted on 04/07/2016 7:36:37 AM PDT by heterosupremacist ("Resistance to tyrants is obedience to God." Thomas Jefferson)
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To: onedoug

Does this raging homosexual sound “lighthearted, carefree, & happy”?

For those of a certain age, that’s what “gay” used to mean, & it had nothing to do with deviant sexuality.

Most “gays” today are anything but.


8 posted on 04/07/2016 7:39:27 AM PDT by elcid1970 ("The Second Amendment is more important than Islam. Buy ammo.")
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To: Kaslin

My father put it very succinctly yesterday. “ I am sick of hearing about all this gay crap every second of the day!”


9 posted on 04/07/2016 7:39:30 AM PDT by Jim from C-Town (The government is rarely benevolent, often malevolent and never benign!)
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To: Kaslin

LGBT suicide rate is high, but it’s not high enough.


10 posted on 04/07/2016 7:39:36 AM PDT by HomerBohn (Liberals and slinkies: they're good for nothing, but you smile as you shove them down the stairs.)
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To: Kaslin

MOST homosexuals were molested as children, which also explains the anger.


11 posted on 04/07/2016 7:39:38 AM PDT by G Larry (ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS impose SLAVE WAGES on LEGAL Immigrants.)
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To: Kaslin

Dear Jesus, may the devil be stopped from hiding behind lies and may the magnitude and reach of Your sacrifice become evident. Evil conduct is evil whether done by unbelievers or believers, and the only possible remedy is the same, Your sacrifice.


12 posted on 04/07/2016 7:39:45 AM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (Embrace the Lion of Judah and He will roar for you and teach you to roar too. See my page.)
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To: Kaslin
The sad thing is that they won't even admit that it is a mental illness, so reaching out to them with viable options such as counseling or celibacy only provokes more anger.
13 posted on 04/07/2016 7:40:04 AM PDT by Vigilanteman (ObaMao: Fake America, Fake Messiah, Fake Black man. How many fakes can you fit into one Zer0?)
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To: Kaslin

I really don’t care.


14 posted on 04/07/2016 7:40:31 AM PDT by Arm_Bears (Rope. Tree. Politician/Journalist. Some assembly required.)
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To: Kaslin

You said “deep pain”. hnn hnn hnnn.


15 posted on 04/07/2016 7:40:43 AM PDT by DungeonMaster (the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour.)
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To: HomerBohn

You really truly had to be a troll, huh.


16 posted on 04/07/2016 7:41:25 AM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (Embrace the Lion of Judah and He will roar for you and teach you to roar too. See my page.)
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To: Arm_Bears

That’s a good way to get God “not to care” about you.


17 posted on 04/07/2016 7:41:49 AM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (Embrace the Lion of Judah and He will roar for you and teach you to roar too. See my page.)
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To: Kaslin

I’m so tired of the sodomite lobby. The other night I had to turn off “Criminal Minds” because they portrayed the “homos” as victims and wonderful people along with the muslims. The real enemies were Christians and People of the Book.


18 posted on 04/07/2016 7:42:00 AM PDT by 2nd Amendment (Proud member of the 48% . . giver not a taker)
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To: Kaslin

The author is correct. I used to know a number of homosexuals. Almost to a one - they suffer from great burdens of disease, violence, addiction, depression/suicide, etc... due to their own illness and sexuality.

They are indeed in great pain, brought on them by their own behavior, and the superficial reaction is to blame others or seek acceptance for their behavior, which are absolutely wrong.


19 posted on 04/07/2016 7:42:47 AM PDT by PGR88
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To: DungeonMaster

Having ones sigmoid colon artificially straightened out is typically accompanied by deep pain.


20 posted on 04/07/2016 7:43:17 AM PDT by Ancient Man
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