>>What if the wife has a problem that prevents her fulfilling her martial sexual obligations? What if she and her husband work out an arrangement where he can obtain satisfaction elsewhere?
Is that any of our business?<<
They don’t call them “vows” for nothing.
It isn’t my specific business but cheating is cheating. If someone is on A/M with the spouse’s implicit or explicit permission then there is no harm done (by your reasoning).
I don’t personally care but if someone is busted for cheating then boo freaking hoo. It is like an episode of “Cheaters.”
Justify it all you want but don’t ask for my sympathy.
I’m not justifying anything. You have a very difficult time understanding condemnation for something, vs taking action that may wind up with people dying.
I don’t know why they are doing it. You don’t either.
Is it evil or is there a reason we don’t know about? You don’t know. You don’t care.
It’s hard enough the idea of playing God when you know everything. You’re satisfied to do it when you don’t.
Yes there is harm done if the spouse is agreeing with it. They don’t want that information made public. You can’t understand that? There may be very private considerations that the extended family is not aware of. Members of the community would be either.
I’m not justifying it. I asking you to grasp that you can’t justify what you approve of here either.
People do not deserve the death penalty for doing this. You should be able to grasp that concept.