I know you’re serious. That’s what is so sad. These men behave boorishly and wonder why they’ve been removed from the candidate list. And the horror stories go on. Very sad. I think the one girl might look for someone outside the country. The other girl is considering a man outside her faith.
If you behave as an old fashioned gentleman, women literally or figuratively slap you in the face. Get that often enough and you then start treating a woman, as the feminists demand you do, as just another guy - because you’ve learned that anything else is going to be painful.
If that’s boorish, that’s too bad. This is what the feminists have done, please take it up with them.