If you behave as an old fashioned gentleman, women literally or figuratively slap you in the face. Get that often enough and you then start treating a woman, as the feminists demand you do, as just another guy - because you’ve learned that anything else is going to be painful.
If that’s boorish, that’s too bad. This is what the feminists have done, please take it up with them.
Not disagreeing. I just think it’s sad that these attractive, smart women one I know has great homemaking skills, they’re not fat and they’re fun. They are having a hard time finding a good guy. It’s not just the guys struggling to find a girl who’s not a crazy skank. It goes both ways. Very sad.