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"What a horrible mother:" How a call from a "good samaritan" derailed these mothers’ lives
Salon ^ | April 19, 2015 | Kim Brooks

Posted on 04/20/2015 9:14:41 AM PDT by No One Special

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To: Hieronymus

Never, actually. If the four year old was asleep and the one year old wasn’t, I would park right next to the house, open the door to the house so the 7 year old could go in, unbuckle and wake up the four year old, unbuckle the one year old, let them both out of the car and into the house.


81 posted on 04/20/2015 12:04:35 PM PDT by alphadoggie
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To: Mears

Maybe it should. You need to be aware that you are being sized-up by the cop the whole time. He’s looking for a tell-tale bulge that could be a concealed weapon, checking your eyes for signs of intoxication, making mental note of your clothing, your facial features, etc. It’s their training and most of them are pretty good at it.


82 posted on 04/20/2015 12:29:09 PM PDT by beelzepug (liberalism is not...a political philosophy. It is a stage of arrested emotional development.)
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To: camle

There’s being careful and protective, then there’s helicoptering with hawsers for apron strings.

It’s a miracle any of us kids from the ‘50s, ‘60s and ‘70s survived, obviously.


83 posted on 04/20/2015 12:44:44 PM PDT by Don W ( When most riot, neighborhoods and cities burn. When Whites riot, nations and continents burn.)
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To: AlaskaErik
Blue states...all three of them. I’m not surprised at all. This would never have happened where I’m from in Alaska.

Don't bet your life on it. You, obviously have not had any interaction with CPS in Alaska. Enough said, for now. When this current mess is over, I will have plenty to say.

84 posted on 04/20/2015 12:55:37 PM PDT by snowtigger (It ain't what you shoot, it's what you hit.)
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To: camle

Did no one teach you how to lock the doors?

During her first Wyoming winter, I’d leave my daughter alone (infant) if the trip inside was going to take me less than 5 minutes and I had a clear line of sight to her the whole time. (Post office is the perfect example) I’d leave the car on with the heater running and lock all the doors.

In what way is that unsafe? Is that less safe than dragging an infant into -10* weather?

I was more concerned with protecting her newborn lungs from the frigid cold.


85 posted on 04/20/2015 1:06:47 PM PDT by Marie
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To: MeganC

Well, it’s safer to slaughter the sheep than to fight the wolves.

Just sayin’


86 posted on 04/20/2015 1:17:10 PM PDT by chesley (Obama -- Muslim or dhimmi? And does it matter?)
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To: magellan

LOL!


87 posted on 04/20/2015 3:34:33 PM PDT by <1/1,000,000th%
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To: Skepolitic

Well said.


88 posted on 04/20/2015 3:40:07 PM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: Hieronymus
How many have died while in foster care and otherwise in the custody of the state?

What are the odds that a kid who is never left alone for five minutes will grown up to be a balanced adult?

******************************

Good questions. Our society is swiftly moving in the wrong direction.

89 posted on 04/20/2015 3:42:29 PM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: trisham

Yes—completely nuts.

Mrs. H had also read this article and we were discussing it over dinner. We’re going to do our utmost to get one more step away from the meddling do-gooders—and we’re already in a very small town in the Ontario near north. The locals are great—they are mostly all cousins of each other—but the cottagers can be a pain in the backside.


90 posted on 04/20/2015 4:23:05 PM PDT by Hieronymus
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To: Hieronymus

Imho, the closer one is to the cities, the worse it is, but it seems to be almost everywhere.


91 posted on 04/20/2015 4:28:29 PM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: No One Special
It is pure speculation on my part, but I suspect the vast majority of the self-righteous 911 dailers and crying baby videographers are Salon readers and/or target demographic.
92 posted on 04/20/2015 6:51:03 PM PDT by spodefly (This is my tag line. There are many like it, but this one is mine.)
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To: camle

I agree. But I think there are MUCH better ways to handle the situation. Seeing your mother arrested by the cops cannot be a good experience for small children.


93 posted on 04/20/2015 8:23:22 PM PDT by generally
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To: MeganC

They have to do something with all the free time they have due to not arresting illegals, ignoring drug traffickers, and looking the other way when politicians and their families are breaking laws.

I have had several cops in my family, so I know there are good ones, but in many places, the cops are terrified of the real criminals, so they spend their time harassing little old ladies who fail to stop for a full three seconds at a stop sign or don’t turn on their blinker far enough in advance of a turn. Raising revenue is FAR more important than fighting real crime and it’s a lot easier to deal with nice law-abiding citizens than to confront actual criminals.


94 posted on 04/20/2015 8:33:03 PM PDT by generally
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To: alphadoggie

You’re not a parent.
So you have no clue.


95 posted on 04/20/2015 10:13:36 PM PDT by grey_whiskers (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change without notice.)
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To: camle

The stranger abduction rate in the US is miniscule, and has been dropping for decades.


96 posted on 04/20/2015 10:15:13 PM PDT by grey_whiskers (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change without notice.)
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To: jasbd1985

Do you know how much hell has been unleashed into the lives of those children, because a self-righteous pig-fornicator decided they had to call the cops and stay there until the mother was arrested “for the children”?

Do you even recognize that they were hurt badly by the state intruding into their lives?

Do you know how much in lawyer’s fees, and that the mother has to live in mortal terror now, because now she is recognized as an “irresponsible parent” to the point of having been arrested?

Likely not. Because feelgood, because for the children.


97 posted on 04/20/2015 10:22:16 PM PDT by grey_whiskers (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change without notice.)
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To: grey_whiskers

On several occasions I’ll see a kid that seems a bit too young and alone and keep an eye on them. Shortly mom or dad comes into view.

One time, outside the video store, there was a car with 5 or 6 kids in it, all pretty young (8 or younger). I watched for a bit and no adult. I walked over to the car, driver’s window down, keys in the ignition.

I looked at the oldest boy and asked where their mom was.
“Inside.”
“Okay. I’m going to take the keys and give them to your mom.”

Once inside I called out loudly “Excuse me. Who is the person with all the kids out in the car. I have your keys!”
The lady sheepishly ran up and got them. I’m glad I didn’t get shot reaching into the car (but I was looking!).

Maybe I was a jerk, but hey - I didn’t call the cops!


98 posted on 04/20/2015 10:36:54 PM PDT by 21twelve (http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/2185147/posts It is happening again.)
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To: jasbd1985

I give all my kids two pair of scissors and a lightning rod before sending them out to run naked through the forest in a thunderstorm. We also store all of our silverware in light sockets to teach kids about electricity. I don’t allow bb guns though—they are too dangerous—all my kids are given real .22s at age six so they can learn that guns are not toys.


99 posted on 04/20/2015 10:45:14 PM PDT by antidisestablishment ( Everyone is equal in the state of desperation. GOP delenda est!)
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To: camle
“um... i raised my kid, and she was NEVER alone in the car. NEVER. it only takes a second for someone to jump in and either take the car, the kid, or do damage. it isn’t worth the convenience.”

Paranoia can destroy Ya.

Or in the case of Pharisee type such as yourself, destroy others.

A pox upon such busybodies!

100 posted on 04/20/2015 10:49:07 PM PDT by GladesGuru (Islam Delenda Est. Because of what Islam is - and because of what Muslims do.)
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