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Gays in America and Overcoming the “Ick” Factor
Townhall.com ^ | April 11, 2015 | Liz Harrison

Posted on 04/11/2015 6:56:52 AM PDT by Kaslin

Normally, I would not even think about the concept of digging into my past studies in sociology when writing anything for the political arena, but when it comes to social issues, focusing purely on politics can definitely do everyone a disservice. When it comes to the latest round of gay rights activists trying to push their agenda on the masses, I decided it was time to drag out the sociology at least a little. Erick Erickson observations here on the gay rights movement pushing their agenda too hard when it comes to religion were spot on. However, examining just the legal and religious principles in play isn't quite enough.

Beyond the gay rights movement going too far by suggesting that it is time to start dictating religious doctrine, there is another issue that they have inadvertently put precariously close to the table in this debate. The primary reason why the gay rights movement has enjoyed the success that it has up until now is that it has been very careful to place the private side of the issue behind a wall. Messaging has been almost exclusively about treating all people equally, and the activists have generally been very careful to keep the sex lives of gays and bisexuals out of the dialogue. It was a brilliant choice, because it's fair to assume that many Americans would have negative visceral responses to seeing and hearing about those activities on a regular basis.

It has been a bizarre balancing act that involves a group of people defining themselves by their sexual proclivities, while simultaneously keeping the actual sex acts out of view. Now that the movement is trying to force changes in religious doctrine to find their lifestyle acceptable, that balancing act is going to be more difficult to maintain. The bottom line is that religions consider gay sex – sodomy, if you prefer – a sin. The wall that the gay rights movement built to hide what they do in bed from the public view will need to come down at least a little to win this battle.

From a sociological standpoint, that will be opening another can of worms for gay activists. We can easily see why just by looking at popular culture. While there are many gay characters in television and film now, the depiction of gay sex outside of the adult film industry remains a rarity, and for good reason. Even people that are supportive of gay rights would not necessarily want to see what the people they support do in bed. Call it the “ick” factor if you like, but it is a simple fact of life that gay activists have avoided facing so far. We simply haven't reached a point in our culture where homosexual behavior can be completely “normalized,” and it's not just religious doctrine standing in the way.

The entertainment industry just recently showed us this, in the form of the HBO series “Looking,” which followed the social lives of a group of gay men in San Francisco. Due to falling ratings, HBO canceled it. While critics may have battled back and forth about the quality of the show in general, the most likely reason why the show did not take off had nothing to do with production values. The general public simply wasn't interested in delving into the personal lives of gay men. The irony is that the gay rights movement itself might have had a hand in that, because it has been so careful to keep the “nuts and bolts” of the gay lifestyle out of the spotlight.

Now, it will probably get sunlight that they do not want, because instead of just having to battle the “evil Christian bigots,” they may also see losses in support elsewhere. It was fine and even fashionable to support gay rights when one didn't have to think about anyone actually engaging in gay sex. No one should be surprised if we end up seeing some people admit to at least a little revulsion toward gays, assuming that the dialogue truly does turn to the actual sins involved. Arguably, the ball is in the court of religious leaders now. The question is, are they willing to speak explicitly about sin for the sake of protecting religious liberty?


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial
KEYWORDS: fdrq; homosexualagenda; ick; ickfactor; yuck
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To: Kaslin

The Gosnell horror story of botched, late term abortions has been enough to turn the tide in America toward favoring the prohibition of such a heinous procedure. Showing images and providing unflinching, clinical descriptions of homosexual anal & oral sodomy, lesbian cunniligus & scissoring, and the dangerous, deadly outcomes of these perverted acts are much needed.


21 posted on 04/11/2015 7:19:38 AM PDT by twister881
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To: Gay State Conservative

“Read the card, read the card!”

Sorry, I couldn’t help it.


22 posted on 04/11/2015 7:22:36 AM PDT by Ditter
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To: Kaslin

23 posted on 04/11/2015 7:23:20 AM PDT by Jeff Chandler (Doctrine doesn't change. The trick is to find a way around it.)
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To: Kaslin

The ‘ick’ factor hasn’t gone anywhere. It has been suppressed through intimidation, extortion, coercion, ridicule and media social engineering.

Look at most any prime time TV show now and there is a guaranteed gay pervert (or more) represented. Like they are 1 in 5 or even 1 in 10 of the population when the actual number is orders of magnitude smaller.

So vastly misrepresented and mischaracterized as funny, loving, caring humans who only want acceptance. All the niceties of that aura of good feeling completely choreographed. With little adopted children even.

They never show the horrid acts committed in the privacy of their bedroom and the unnatural things done. Those same Gay-adopted Stepford child actors would reel puking if they actually saw what they pretend to accept in the scripts they mimic.

The ‘ick’ is still there, it just isn’t voiced because of fear.


24 posted on 04/11/2015 7:23:23 AM PDT by Gaffer
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To: Kaslin

25 posted on 04/11/2015 7:24:00 AM PDT by Travis McGee (www.EnemiesForeignAndDomestic.com)
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To: MNDude

You need to research the tales of LemmieWinks from South Park.


26 posted on 04/11/2015 7:24:32 AM PDT by Gaffer
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To: All
Link goes elsewhere for me. Corrected link here:

Gays in America and Overcoming the “Ick” Factor

27 posted on 04/11/2015 7:25:24 AM PDT by Proud_texan ("Reality is that which, when you stop believing in it, doesn't go away." - PK Dick)
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To: MNDude
serious? LOL! How did he explain that?

Yup,completely serious.And he didn't have to explain it...medical professionals who work in,or trained in,the big city are well aware of such things.My cardiologist just told me a story last month when I saw him about an experience he had as a medical student in San Francisco.It involved a woman and a $50 bill she thought she had lost.

If I gave more details I'd be banned from FR for life.

28 posted on 04/11/2015 7:26:52 AM PDT by Gay State Conservative (Obama;A Low Grade Intellect With Even Lower Morals)
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To: Gay State Conservative

16 amazing xrays of things stuck up there.....LOLOLOLOL!

A headless Barbie? BWAHAHAHAHAHA

http://www.collegehumor.com/post/6959407/please-dont-stick-stuff-up-your-butt-16-strange-x-rays-of-things-people-have-put-up-there


29 posted on 04/11/2015 7:27:03 AM PDT by doug from upland (Obama and the leftists - destroying our country one day at a time)
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To: doug from upland
16 amazing xrays of things stuck up there.

Did you notice the items in the list below?

No wonder these people have such a crappy outlook on life.


30 posted on 04/11/2015 7:35:33 AM PDT by Iron Munro (It IS as BAD as you think and they ARE out to get you.)
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To: Kaslin

“...and the activists have generally been very careful to keep the sex lives of gays and bisexuals out of the dialogue.”

That’s some bullsh*t right there.


31 posted on 04/11/2015 7:37:48 AM PDT by VanDeKoik
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To: Kaslin
In my humble uneducated opinion, the reason there is an ICK factor is because same sex relationships are not normal and we are genetically hard wired to recognize the fact! It is only the genetic anomalies that find this normal and are not affected by the ICK factor.
32 posted on 04/11/2015 7:40:23 AM PDT by Mastador1 (I'll take a bad dog over a good politician any day!)
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To: Kaslin

I remember when I first learned what heterosexual encounters were about, my reaction was “ick.” There is a huge campaign to desensitize children to this “ick.”


33 posted on 04/11/2015 7:47:28 AM PDT by Mercat
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To: driftless2

How do you explain Modern Family? That is a hit show on ABC that has been on for a very long time. I think Americans can watch some shows that are gay but not all of them I guess. I have watched Modern Family before and I found it boring to be honest with you.


34 posted on 04/11/2015 7:58:34 AM PDT by napscoordinator (Walker for President 2016. The only candidate with actual real RESULTS!!!!! The rest...talkers!)
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To: Kaslin

In order to reinstate the “ick” factor folks (if they can stomach it) should visit Zombie’s page at http://www.zombietime.com/ and look for his Folsom Street Fair pictorial. There used to be two versions. One with blurs and one without. Even with the blurs, you would get the “ICK” factor. Or maybe the pictorial of gay pride parades in San Fran.


35 posted on 04/11/2015 8:01:47 AM PDT by rktman (Served in the Navy to protect the rights of those that want to take some of mine away. Odd, eh?)
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To: Mercat

heterosexual???


36 posted on 04/11/2015 8:03:00 AM PDT by doug from upland (Obama and the leftists - destroying our country one day at a time)
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To: Kaslin
Once people come to understand the sexual addiction aspect of homosexuality, the ick factor will grow by an order of magnitude.

Homosexuals aren't folks who just happen to be attracted to folks of the same sex...they are obsessed with sex. And like any drug, the dosage has to be continually increased to deliver the same high.

37 posted on 04/11/2015 8:06:01 AM PDT by RoosterRedux (WSC: The truth is incontrovertible; malice may attack it, ignorance may deride it, but in the end...)
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To: doug from upland

I am a girl. And at the age of about 11 it seemed yucky to me. It’s supposed to seem yucky at that age. Even seeing a boy or a man’s stuff was yucky. I didn’t even know that “gay” sex existed.


38 posted on 04/11/2015 8:06:41 AM PDT by Mercat
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To: Kaslin

and if you say , “Ick” ,you get arrested, fined and a cell with Ben Dover


39 posted on 04/11/2015 8:06:47 AM PDT by molson209 (Blank)
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To: Mastador1

I agree with you.

However with enough conditioning/brainwashing this can be overcome.

Explains why they are trying so hard to impose this through the public schools and sex education.


40 posted on 04/11/2015 8:11:46 AM PDT by crusher2013
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