Yes, I think we are at the point that Christians should only get married in church, and boycott the phony civil marriage process.
However, file for benefits as married couples, and when the government denies them, sue for religious discrimination.
Why get the government marriage license, why not file for joint benefits without it, and be married in Church only. Inheritance and other issues are never handled by a marriage license, even who decides your life support if you are left comatose in a hospital is not your marriage license.