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When guys find out I’m a virgin [author is a 26 year old female Christian]
Salon ^
| October 5, 2014
| Ellen Burkhardt
Posted on 10/13/2014 3:06:55 PM PDT by grundle
There’s no good time to tell a guy you’re a virgin. First date? Too much, too soon. Wait until the third date and you risk being considered a tease. Second date? Perhaps, but at this point you’re both still fretting over whether or not to eat another piece of bread; delving into sexual histories (or lack thereof) seems a bit extreme. So: There’s no good time to tell a guy you’re a virgin. Even worse? Telling him you’re waiting until marriage.
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TOPICS: Editorial; Miscellaneous; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: abstinence; cat; cats; chastity; culturewar; darwin; ellenburkhardt; frigidity; hookupculture; hyperliteralism; kittycats; moralabsolutes; morekittycats; puritanism; salon; salonstockdeathwatch; virgin; virginity
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To: dware
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posted on
10/16/2014 3:22:20 AM PDT
by
Elsie
( Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: Rodamala; Lazamataz
What are you going to do?
Give you confidence.
Be gentle.
322
posted on
10/16/2014 3:49:40 AM PDT
by
Elsie
( Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: skimbell
Telling him you’re waiting until marriage...”Reverse psychology was big in my youth:
Tell HER you’re waiting until marriage..
323
posted on
10/16/2014 3:52:50 AM PDT
by
Elsie
( Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: GeronL
When tin foil just... isn’t... enough...
324
posted on
10/16/2014 3:54:31 AM PDT
by
Elsie
( Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: butterdezillion
There is a LOT of truth here!
325
posted on
10/16/2014 3:56:32 AM PDT
by
Elsie
( Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: GeronL
326
posted on
10/16/2014 4:02:34 AM PDT
by
Elsie
( Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: ifinnegan
Why spend a year in sexual frustration and have to make a life-time commitment to a woman when the next girl will put out without all the baggage?”We KNOW that a certain church teaches that Joseph was FRUSTRATED for at least 12 years...
327
posted on
10/16/2014 4:04:25 AM PDT
by
Elsie
( Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: fieldmarshaldj
Somebunny ran off with your “g” ?It's dyslexic
328
posted on
10/16/2014 4:05:37 AM PDT
by
Elsie
( Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: RegulatorCountry
Marking the body is frowned upon and even forbidden in the OT. For the dead...
Leviticus 19:28
"'Do not cut your bodies for the dead or put tattoo marks on yourselves.
329
posted on
10/16/2014 4:07:42 AM PDT
by
Elsie
( Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: Disambiguator
You wouldn’t want to be standing next to that during a lightning storm.I would; for I'd be safer than standing there alone!
(You don't always have to outrun the bear!)
330
posted on
10/16/2014 4:09:07 AM PDT
by
Elsie
( Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: ziravan
Still unmarried at 27?I did not notice whether any toys have been mentioned.
Sometimes the fantasy is MUCH better that the fact.
Men!
Find out YOUR T level TODAY!!!
331
posted on
10/16/2014 4:12:06 AM PDT
by
Elsie
( Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: Wyrd bið ful aræd
I’d be constantly trying to pick my nose!
That canNOT feel good!
332
posted on
10/16/2014 4:13:43 AM PDT
by
Elsie
( Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: ifinnegan
What church was it with all these fake Christian men?Probably any one you'd pick.
333
posted on
10/16/2014 4:15:30 AM PDT
by
Elsie
( Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: KevinB
It ain’t the well that need a doctor...
334
posted on
10/16/2014 4:16:39 AM PDT
by
Elsie
( Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: Jonty30
And what did Christ do to reach the lost?"Go and sin no more."
335
posted on
10/16/2014 4:22:01 AM PDT
by
Elsie
( Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: Twink
No. The “jee” (phonetic spellinq) doesn’t work on my keyboard.
336
posted on
10/16/2014 4:24:41 AM PDT
by
butterdezillion
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To: SteveH
So you’re basically sayinq that if is comes naturally it’s qood?
337
posted on
10/16/2014 4:25:31 AM PDT
by
butterdezillion
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To: a fool in paradise
I was wondering what the nosering was about, trying to appear “edgy”? It's a shiny object.
Men are attracted to shiny objects.
With the ring, she needs not to wear....
338
posted on
10/16/2014 4:27:56 AM PDT
by
Elsie
( Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: Elsie
Who says that, by being where they are, that you are going to do what they do?
But you’re right on one point. If you are personally prone to doing in Rome what the Romans do, you should probably stay away.
339
posted on
10/16/2014 4:28:14 AM PDT
by
Jonty30
(What Islam and secularism have in common is that they are both death cults)
To: SteveH
For conversinq with someone who doesn’t lecture others, I feel stranqely lectured.
Isn’t EVERYTHINQ in the domain of personal preference? What isn’t in that domain, in your opinion?
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posted on
10/16/2014 4:31:06 AM PDT
by
butterdezillion
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