[Secret Agent Man]

not my definition. almost all states have this as their definition in their state laws concerning marital property.

and it sounds like you are totally great with people arrying to attempt to brden another person with their pre-marriage mountain of debt. that be love to you, but not me.

[E. Pluribus Unum]

If you're going to marry somebody, you marry the whole package, unless it's just a pretend marriage.