Most people nowadays defer marriage until they can afford the wedding. First they have a baby, then they go on a honeymoon and then, when they’ve saved enough, exchange “vows.”
Why save enough? Getting married doesn’t really cost diddly unless one wants something outrageous.
Have we made marriage more of a spectacle/show-off production than a life-time decision and commitment?
Easy solution, don’t waste money on a fancy wedding just find a justice of the peace.
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