My stance is simple.
Let ME decide. Don’t censor the material, let me see it in it’s entirety; and let me consider, ponder and pray.
For example, there are things in Leviticus that are a bit harsh. I don’t believe God really wants me to stone my neighbor if he mixes his Wool and Linen. (Lev. 19:19).
It shouldn't matter to you what a council or councils, whom you seem to consider illigitimate anyway, officially decreed 1600 or 1700 years ago.
Although being that much closer in time to the events I would think they were in a better position to decide than anyone today is.
Of course you can decide for you. But the Church decides for the Church. Man is involved in both cases: You in your case, the Apostles, Church Fathers, Bishops and Councils in the case of the Church.
Well; unless you are JEWISH; what makes you think them LAWS apply to YOU?
Where exactly does stoning come into Lev. 19:19?
Don’t worry.
I found my neighbor mixing the wool and linen again. I took care of it for you.
We went out back and got stoned.
Thats what it meant, right?