When we sent my daughter to a public High School after attending private school we opted her out of the "Family Life" sex counseling week.
To punish her/us the libtard teachers made the students who opted out write a ten page research report (full Bib. and footnotes too) on some kind of health related subject. TEN pages in five days, fully researched, for a 9th grader!
For the first time in my family I made her find a subject, get some research pages from the web and then I sat down one evening and wrote her paper for her. It was hard to write at a 9th grade level but I made it and she was the only opt out student to get an A.
The rest of the class sat and got the liberal version of sex ed and had to do nothing.
The problem I have with this opt out is the “branding” of the students and the parents.
Of course, if you pull your kid out she could still be branded.
I think my decision would be to pull the kid out if it is going to be shown rather than being ostracized in another room...but if you are talking about a teenager..then I think I would give them the choice. Then have a discussion about it.
This is going to create yet another racial divide in urban settings.