The legal status of Calif. same-sex marriage that happened before election day has not been settled. It would likely take a court ruling to clarify their status, as to whether the Proposition 8 amendment is retro-active or not.
It’s important to note also that this applies to Calif. marriage only. Ellen and Mr. Sulu and the others are single and have always been single under federal law, because the federal gov’t doesn’t recognize homosexual marriage.
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