Excuse me, but most adults who have their first baby are not prepared for what lies ahead. Their family will love and support them until they can support themselves.
If you have graduated from hs, you have a job, preferably so that the mother can stay home for a while, if you have lived even a bit on your own, you are better prepared to raise a child.
We have to stop being so pc that any kind of family is okay. A stable, mature, married heterosexual couple is best. If you can find that through adoption for your baby, so much the better.
Why is adoption so bad?