If you have graduated from hs, you have a job, preferably so that the mother can stay home for a while, if you have lived even a bit on your own, you are better prepared to raise a child.
We have to stop being so pc that any kind of family is okay. A stable, mature, married heterosexual couple is best. If you can find that through adoption for your baby, so much the better.
Why is adoption so bad?
I’m not saying adoption is bad. It is a wonderful thing to do when the mother does not want the baby.
If a family wants to keep the child and it is in a stable and loving home, to me, that is the best place for it.