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Freeper Canteen ~ Sunday Chapel Thread ~ IN GENTLENESS THERE IS STRENGTH~ August 03, 2008
The Canteen Crew ^ | August 2, 2008 | Serving the Best Troops and Vets in the WORLD!

Posted on 08/02/2008 4:57:06 PM PDT by Brad’s Gramma


 
 

 

 


 


IN GENTLENESS THERE IS STRENGTH



The parents were devastated. Their young adopted daughter had died in an unusual accident. She suffocated when the drawstring on the hood of her jacket became caught in a playground slide. It was later learned their child was not the first to die this way. Design flaws in both the hood and the slide made this an accident waiting to happen.

Some people might have viewed this tragedy as an opportunity to sue the two major corporations for a lucrative settlement. The parents, however, refused. In an interview, the mother said she would have seen any remuneration as "blood money." She and her husband believed the leaders of the two companies never intended to harm her child or any other child. Instead of a lawsuit, the parents appealed to the clothing and slide manufacturers to correct the design flaws which had led to the death of their daughter. Both companies took immediate action. Today the parents are leaders in a campaign to promote child safety, and the companies involved have contributed substantially toward their cause.

It is not always wrong to sue. There are times when it is the prudent thing to do. It seems, however, that our society has become increasingly litigious, suing without discretion for profit and personal gain. In light of today’s litigious climate, one cannot help but be moved by the choice of these parents not to sue. Instead they chose a "higher ground," earning not only the willing cooperation of both companies, but strong allies in their campaign to promote child safety as well. We might say they took the "pure, peaceable and gentle way" described in the third chapter of James in the Christian scriptures (James 3:17) as opposed to the adversarial way offered them by the courts. An ancient Native American saying reads, "In gentleness there is great strength." Dag Hammarskjold, former Secretary General to the United Nations and recipient of the Nobel Peace Prize, put it this way, "Nothing is so strong as gentleness, and nothing so gentle as true strength." In the end, the gentle, peaceable way of these parents demonstrated the greater strength and wisdom.

CAPT Jane F. Vieira, CHC, USN

 

 


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To: All

Welcome Troops, Veterans, Families, and Allies!
God Bless You and Keep You Safe.

We'll Give The Glory To Jesus

My God Is A Righteous God


121 posted on 08/03/2008 12:56:16 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska (~ RIP Brian...heaven's gain...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~)
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To: All

Welcome Troops, Veterans, Families, and Allies!
God Bless You and Keep You Safe.

I Will Follow Him All The Way

What Will You Do With Jesus


122 posted on 08/03/2008 12:58:55 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska (~ RIP Brian...heaven's gain...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~)
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To: All

Welcome Troops, Veterans, Families, and Allies!
God Bless You and Keep You Safe.

Peace In The Midst Of The Storm

Grace Grace, God's Grace


123 posted on 08/03/2008 1:08:14 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska (~ RIP Brian...heaven's gain...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~)
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To: All

Welcome Troops, Veterans, Families, and Allies!
God Bless You and Keep You Safe.

The Good Shepard I Hear

Come Now Holy Spirit


124 posted on 08/03/2008 1:11:38 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska (~ RIP Brian...heaven's gain...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~)
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To: Kathy in Alaska

Hi Kathy, thank you and same to you. I appreciate the prayers more than you know and I did have a nice visit with her today.


125 posted on 08/03/2008 1:23:43 PM PDT by Stephanie32
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To: redrock
The lawn chair is a VERY vital part of the healing!!


You know, if you're preapproved for a chair, and Medicare
turns down your claim, The Scooter Store will ...
What? That's a different kind of chair?
Nevermind.

126 posted on 08/03/2008 1:53:03 PM PDT by BykrBayb (www.lifeforlauren.org Þ)
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To: Kathy in Alaska

Hiya Ma, just checking in with you and the FR gang.

Thanks for the uplifting Sunday music!

Things are still about the same but I remain optimistic...beautiful 80 degree day here...I hear AlBore said you have the warmest weather ever up north, what say you?!

Later & (((HUGS)))


127 posted on 08/03/2008 2:47:13 PM PDT by PROCON (No more politics, I promise!)
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To: PROCON

Rats....I was out shopping and missed you. Thanks, Pro, for checking in. Prayers continue for you and your family.

albore, as usual, knows not of what he speaks. d:o)

Have a good week. ((HUGS))


128 posted on 08/03/2008 3:44:01 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska (~ RIP Brian...heaven's gain...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~)
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To: Kathy in Alaska; AZamericonnie

Back home now and on my own PC. Off to the grocery store.


129 posted on 08/03/2008 4:02:00 PM PDT by SandRat (Duty, Honor, Country! What else needs said?)
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To: SandRat

Glad you are home safely....I just returned from shopping. A little cooler now?


130 posted on 08/03/2008 4:03:48 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska (~ RIP Brian...heaven's gain...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~)
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To: Kathy in Alaska

Fromm 110 in PHX to 89 here. Overcast and thinking about maybe rain but only thinking about it.


131 posted on 08/03/2008 5:02:26 PM PDT by SandRat (Duty, Honor, Country! What else needs said?)
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To: MS.BEHAVIN; TASMANIANRED; MeekMom; All
Click the pic for ….

Medal of Honor Recipient: Michael J Daly



NOTE: CANTEEN MUSIC
Posted daily and on the Music Thread
for the enjoyment of our troops and visitors.

132 posted on 08/03/2008 5:15:02 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska (~ RIP Brian...heaven's gain...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~)
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To: Cindy

Thanks, Cindy, for the Sunday links.


133 posted on 08/04/2008 9:15:59 AM PDT by Kathy in Alaska (~ RIP Brian...heaven's gain...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~)
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