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Why the late-30s are a man's misery years
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Posted on 08/15/2007 1:10:15 PM PDT by Responsibility2nd

Some might say that all they have to worry about is getting to work on time and the onset of a little middle-aged spread.

But men in their late-30s and early-40s are the least content of all of us, it seems.

Whether they are mourning the passing of their prime or struggling to cope with the demands of a job and young family, those aged 35-44 invariably hit a mid-life crisis when their happiness level plunges lower than at any other age, according to a study for the Government.

It makes them the least satisfied members of society, scoring well below teenagers, the elderly - and women of all ages.

Researchers found that it takes men until they reach the age of 65 to start enjoying life as much as they did in their late-teens and early-20s.

More than 1,600 people were asked to score their wellbeing on a scale of one to ten in the study, part of the British Market Research Bureau survey of Britons' attitudes towards themselves,

The overall average satisfaction level for both sexes was 7.3.

Most men rated their carefree teenage years between the age of 16-24 as one if their happiest periods, with an average score of 7.55 out of ten.

But halfway through their careers, satisfaction levels dipped to a low of 6.8, only rising again to nearly 7.8 once they had crested retirement age.

The report found that women are less buoyant in their teens than men, rating their wellbeing at 7.3 out of ten.

Women said their worst years were between the age of 25 and 34, when most are coping with young children, but their wellbeing rose steadily as they got older, reaching hit a peak satisfaction level of 7.65 when over the age of 65.

Researchers found that most people rated their time at universityas the best years of their life, closely followed by their retirement years.

The biggest difference between the sexes was in the contentment of those not working, with women far happier than men to stay at home not seeking work.

Overall, 74 per cent of the UK population reported that they feel positive about themselves.

But women are more likely to fret, with almost half admitting that they worry a lot, compared to less than a third of men.


TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: genx; men
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To: BearCub

Nice RV!!


141 posted on 08/15/2007 8:21:59 PM PDT by bootless (Never Forget - And Never Again. And Always Act.)
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To: Our man in washington

That’s a beautiful post - I’ve saved it.

...a lady pirate looking at 50.


142 posted on 08/15/2007 8:25:27 PM PDT by bootless (Never Forget - And Never Again. And Always Act.)
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To: Abigail Adams
I wonder if men figure once they’re married they don’t have to be attractive any more.

*sigh* We often wonder the same thing about wimin...

143 posted on 08/15/2007 8:41:24 PM PDT by null and void (I hate to suggest something this radical, but why not let the policy follow the facts? ~ReignOfError)
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To: toast
Now when I look at the kids skateboard all I see is the symbol of my lost youth. I would like to try it again but visions of myself trying to wipe my a$$ with two broken elbows keep haunting me.

Thanks for the laugh. Whew!

144 posted on 08/15/2007 8:51:26 PM PDT by listenhillary (millions crippled by the war on poverty....but we won't pull out)
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To: Abigail Adams

Have you told him you don’t want to be alone? Sometimes it takes a sledgehammer to the head to get a mans attention.


145 posted on 08/15/2007 8:57:41 PM PDT by listenhillary (millions crippled by the war on poverty....but we won't pull out)
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To: expatguy

That looks like a good cure provided that she’s got all OEM parts.


146 posted on 08/15/2007 10:10:51 PM PDT by Triggerhippie (Always use a silencer in a crowd. Loud noises offend people.)
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To: Incorrigible
This is the age Rodney Dangerfield quit selling aluminum siding.

LOL...I know I'm getting old...why my insurance company sent me half a calander.

147 posted on 08/15/2007 10:19:28 PM PDT by Archie Bunker on steroids (We'll stay out of your bedrooms, if you stay out of our children's classrooms.)
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To: Farmer Dean

It’s a real bitch finding out that all the MILFy women are *my* age (and younger).


148 posted on 08/15/2007 10:21:30 PM PDT by Triggerhippie (Always use a silencer in a crowd. Loud noises offend people.)
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To: Responsibility2nd

I have loved my 30’s!!! I am 38 and enjoying the heck out of life. The 20’s were much worse. Did not know a thing. Didn’t have a dime to my name. Debt up to my neck. My family was just starting out.

Now don’t worry about when the next paycheck comes, family is shining, debt is non-existance for the most part, and now I am confident, “smarter” and just happier in general. Hopefully 40’s will even be better...


149 posted on 08/15/2007 11:21:29 PM PDT by napscoordinator
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To: Responsibility2nd

I read your post again. 40’s not as good as the 30’s...I hope they improve immediately!!!


150 posted on 08/15/2007 11:22:28 PM PDT by napscoordinator
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To: HitmanLV
Hey pal, what’s the slogan or saying you told me once about a man in his 40s?

“The best years are the forties; after fifty a man begins to deteriorate, but in the forties he is at the maximum of his villainy.” -- H. L. Mencken

151 posted on 08/16/2007 5:22:26 AM PDT by Mr. Jeeves ("Wise men don't need to debate; men who need to debate are not wise." -- Tao Te Ching)
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To: Minnesoootan
"bear baiting starts this weekend"

What is that?

Carolyn

152 posted on 08/16/2007 5:25:46 AM PDT by CDHart ("It's too late to work within the system and too early to shoot the b@#$%^&s."--Claire Wolfe)
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To: RockinRight
One of my SILs cried all day on her 30th birthday. I don't even remember mine.

Carolyn

153 posted on 08/16/2007 5:28:31 AM PDT by CDHart ("It's too late to work within the system and too early to shoot the b@#$%^&s."--Claire Wolfe)
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To: CDHart

The official start of big game season in Minnesoota,you go out in the woods and try to find a bear with table scraps,Ho-Ho’s an donuts.


154 posted on 08/16/2007 5:44:56 AM PDT by Minnesoootan
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To: null and void

I’m a 6’2” 230lb goatee wearin outdoors gurl.....;-)>


155 posted on 08/16/2007 5:47:27 AM PDT by Minnesoootan
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To: Minnesoootan
Are you serious or is this a snipe hunting story?

Carolyn

156 posted on 08/16/2007 6:11:42 AM PDT by CDHart ("It's too late to work within the system and too early to shoot the b@#$%^&s."--Claire Wolfe)
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To: expatguy

Your insight is great expatguy.

Why are those videos dubbed and typed in English? Who is the audience for those videos?


157 posted on 08/16/2007 6:18:02 AM PDT by Incorrigible (If I lead, follow me; If I pause, push me; If I retreat, kill me.)
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To: CDHart
I'll book mark this thread and get back to you after the Sept 1 opener weekend...if I post a photo of myself,my 70lb recurve and a big black bruin you will know it wasn't a snipe huntin story ;-).

http://www.dnr.state.mn.us/hunting/bear/index.html

158 posted on 08/16/2007 6:18:56 AM PDT by Minnesoootan
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To: cll

This explains my 39 year old husbands desire for a motorcycle. Thank you for clearing this up for me. :-)


159 posted on 08/16/2007 6:28:35 AM PDT by spotbust1 (Procrastinators of the world unite . . . . .tomorrow!!!)
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To: Minnesoootan
OK! Good luck to you!

Carolyn

160 posted on 08/16/2007 6:54:30 AM PDT by CDHart ("It's too late to work within the system and too early to shoot the b@#$%^&s."--Claire Wolfe)
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