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Forum: Joining NOW against Mommy Wars
The Washington Times ^ | March 26, 2006 | Carrie Lukas

Posted on 03/26/2006 5:52:47 AM PST by ReleaseTheHounds

.... So never mind NOW's history of denigrating stay-at-home-moms. Forget the continued distain many feminists and women's studies professors have for women who value raising children. Let's assume all parties truly share the goal of fostering respect for women's choices. Would the feminist agenda accomplish that aim?

NOW lobbies for regulations requiring family friendly policies at businesses, government funding for early childhood education, and giving stay-at-home moms greater access to entitlement programs. These policies would exacerbate the Mommy Wars because each favors one woman's choice over another's.

Individual women already overwhelmingly respect and understand the choices of other women. Sure, society could value more fully the contributions of stay-at-home moms and better respect working moms as mothers. As Ms. Gandy notes, society also should welcome stay-at-home dads. Most Americans get this. That's why "Good Morning America" must struggle to manufacture conflict between working and stay-at-home moms.

It's different when government gets involved. A government giveaway to working moms reduces a stay-at-home mom's value to her family and vice versa. ...

(Excerpt) Read more at washingtontimes.com ...


TOPICS: Constitution/Conservatism; Culture/Society; Editorial; Government; Philosophy; Politics/Elections
KEYWORDS: gandy; now
The Washington Times Headline writers have a confusing headline but this is a good article on the unintended consequences of getting the government involved and taking sides in the Mommy wars.
1 posted on 03/26/2006 5:52:48 AM PST by ReleaseTheHounds
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To: ReleaseTheHounds
"society also should welcome stay-at-home dads."

Why?

2 posted on 03/26/2006 5:54:34 AM PST by BenLurkin (O beautiful for patriot dream - that sees beyond the years)
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To: ReleaseTheHounds
"nd giving stay-at-home moms greater access to entitlement programs.

Again with the "entitlement programs" good grief. Enough with entitlement programs already!

3 posted on 03/26/2006 5:57:17 AM PST by stopem (Call any co you deal with and insist they not let any illegal work on or near your property, we did!)
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To: ReleaseTheHounds

Feminism was about giving women choice. Not insulating them from the consequences. Which is pretty insulting, when you think about it.


4 posted on 03/26/2006 5:57:33 AM PST by mewzilla (Property must be secured or liberty cannot exist. John Adams)
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To: BenLurkin
In most households I'm guessing, the male has the larger salary. For him to stay at home might bring financial hardship on the family.

I'm also guessing NOW is also getting behind those two lesbians in S. Africa that are facing charges of killing the one woman's child because he refused to call his mother's lesbian lover "daddy".
5 posted on 03/26/2006 6:02:19 AM PST by stm (You can fix a lot of thing s, but you can't fix stupid)
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"These battles, led by NOW activists, are critical in our collective fight for social justice and women's equality in the United States. The victories give us hope for a better future where women and girls are no longer under attack by the right wing, out to roll back our rights, liberties, and freedom. We applaud all of the efforts of our sisters and brothers on the front line.
6 posted on 03/26/2006 6:02:44 AM PST by stopem (Call any co you deal with and insist they not let any illegal work on or near your property, we did!)
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To: ReleaseTheHounds
"Forget the continued distain many feminists....."

Shouldn't that be disdain?

I guess that one got past their spellchecker and their editors.

From Websters:
\Dis*tain"\, v. t. To tinge with a different color from the natural or proper one; to stain; to discolor; to sully; to tarnish; to defile.
7 posted on 03/26/2006 6:07:11 AM PST by stm (You can fix a lot of thing s, but you can't fix stupid)
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To: stopem

I'd call replacing Dad and hubby with the nanny state going back to the old days. No thanks.


8 posted on 03/26/2006 6:08:06 AM PST by mewzilla (Property must be secured or liberty cannot exist. John Adams)
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To: mewzilla

Actually it's worse than going back to the old days because in most cases Dad and hubby had your best interests at heart. Same can't be said for Uncle Sugar.


9 posted on 03/26/2006 6:09:56 AM PST by mewzilla (Property must be secured or liberty cannot exist. John Adams)
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To: ReleaseTheHounds

Another feminist attempting to rearrange the deck chairs of feminism's Titanic. Their writings are full of condescension and contempt for all things feminine, godly and American.

Feminists see the writings on the wall, that America women are realizing just how good they have it as American Homemakers. And how much American women owe to the blood, sweat and tears of American men.

In the perverse world of feminists, only women who pursue employment, "work". Women who choose to be Homemakers i.e., wives, mothers, care givers, educators, and the myriad of things that Homemakers do, are simply "stay-at-home moms".

Anyone who adopts the contemptuous terminology of feminists which refers to Homemakers as "stay-at-home- moms", perpetuates the feminist's degradation of Homemakers and furthers the agenda of feminists.

It wont be long before the long dark night that is the holocaust of feminism will be over. The damage done to our country by this evil cult will be calculated for decades. In time, feminism will be looked upon like the KKK. No one will ever admit to having been one.


10 posted on 03/26/2006 7:16:30 AM PST by Search4Truth (Rebellion to tyrants is obedience to God - Thomas Jefferson.)
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To: Search4Truth
Anyone who adopts the contemptuous terminology of feminists which refers to Homemakers as "stay-at-home- moms", perpetuates the feminist's degradation of Homemakers and furthers the agenda of feminists.

Fighting the 'stay at home moms' moniker is no more likely to win than changing Red state/Blue state to the proper designation.

I'd say those 'stay at home moms' would be better off by wearing the phrase as a badge of honor.

11 posted on 03/26/2006 7:47:03 AM PST by Balding_Eagle (REAL men vote Republican)
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To: stm

I thought the same thing. Amazed that one that glaring got by the editors.


12 posted on 03/26/2006 8:19:13 AM PST by speedy
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To: Balding_Eagle; ReleaseTheHounds

Joining feminists in their pop vernacular and their ridiculous arguments is hardly enough to reverse the damage done by feminism. By being a man, I am a hard liner on the subject. In retrospect, I welcome any effort in opposing the feminists, which the author of this article is clearing attempting to do.


13 posted on 03/26/2006 9:14:50 AM PST by Search4Truth (Rebellion to tyrants is obedience to God - Thomas Jefferson.)
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To: Search4Truth

I was simply addressing the use of the 'stay at home mom' phrase.

The damage done by feminism is indisputable, and most men and children have suffered greatly from it.


14 posted on 03/26/2006 9:35:00 AM PST by Balding_Eagle (REAL men vote Republican)
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To: Balding_Eagle; ReleaseTheHounds

Point taken. My apologies for overreacting to the author of the article.

Don't you just hate feminists.


15 posted on 03/26/2006 9:40:35 AM PST by Search4Truth (Rebellion to tyrants is obedience to God - Thomas Jefferson.)
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To: BenLurkin

It may seem shocking, but there are couples out there for whom the woman's salary is significantly higher. If those couples choose to have children at home with a loving parent instead of going to daycare (rightly so in most cases), then the spouse with more earning potential should be the one to work.

I make just under twice my husband's salary. It looks as if when we have children, my mother will be their caregiver while I'm at work - but if one of us stays home, it'd be him.


16 posted on 03/26/2006 1:52:28 PM PST by Rubber_Duckie_27
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