"There is one particular girl at my church, with a surprisingly nicely shaped bottom for a teenager,"
And this is why the topic very seldom gets raised and men suffer in silence. We fall into a damned if we say somenthing and damned if we don't situation. Much as we try to ignore it, especially while we are in church, men are visually oriented and can normally scope out and 'assess' a room with a single scan. We are wired that way and it takes an awful lot of will power to overcome that wiring. (women by the way tend to be more touch oriented)
I realize you are both ribbing me though but in other circumstances it may not be a rib
And this is why the topic very seldom gets raised and men suffer in silence. We fall into a damned if we say somenthing and damned if we don't situation. Much as we try to ignore it, especially while we are in church, men are visually oriented and can normally scope out and 'assess' a room with a single scan. We are wired that way and it takes an awful lot of will power to overcome that wiring. (women by the way tend to be more touch oriented)
I realize you are both ribbing me though but in other circumstances it may not be a rib