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To: gamarob1

For me, casual isn't as bad as immodest. There's one woman at the church I go to that regularly comes in dressed like she's ready for a night on the town ( a hooker, actually); spaghetti straps, low cut, skin tight. The teens do the camisole thing. That simply cannot be condusive to worship for a number of the men out there.


157 posted on 10/18/2005 10:25:20 AM PDT by metmom (Welfare was never meant to be a career choice.)
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To: metmom
The teens do the camisole thing. That simply cannot be condusive to worship for a number of the men out there.

Exactly correct. There is one particular girl at my church, with a surprisingly nicely shaped bottom for a teenager, who seems to own nothing but skin tight jeans (you know, the kind you have to zip up on the side to get into).

Major distraction for myself and several others I've caught looking. But how do you get the situation corrected without it looking like you've been ogling her for a while?

179 posted on 10/18/2005 11:48:03 AM PDT by John O (God Save America (Please))
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To: metmom

Camisole tops by themselves are totally inappropriate for church.


184 posted on 10/18/2005 11:59:52 AM PDT by cyborg (I'm on the 24 plan having the best day ever.)
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To: metmom

For me, casual isn't as bad as immodest. There's one woman at the church I go to that regularly comes in dressed like she's ready for a night on the town ( a hooker, actually); spaghetti straps, low cut, skin tight. The teens do the camisole thing. That simply cannot be condusive to worship for a number of the men out there.

Y'all need to send these folks over to my church! I go every Sunday, and never see this type of attire.


199 posted on 10/18/2005 12:30:50 PM PDT by cubram
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To: metmom
What you just described, could be used to describe my wife, when she first walked into the church I was attending, before our marriage. She looked "immodest". Plenty of skin. Hey, the church is for sinners, right?

Today, years after conversion and our marriage, she'd never do that. But even for those Christians who still do that, I prefer to let them come in "immodest", than to not come in at all.

224 posted on 10/18/2005 2:16:37 PM PDT by gamarob1 (.)
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To: metmom
The teens do the camisole thing. That simply cannot be condusive to worship for a number of the men out there.

It isn't. Trust me, you have no idea how incredibly distracting that is. Let me say that I'm a guy who feels more attraction for a woman dressed modestly than one that shows off a bit more, if for no other reason than she's making it easier on me, on a day-to-day basis, to keep my thoughts clean.
266 posted on 10/19/2005 5:13:45 AM PDT by JamesP81
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