Second class behavior.
The best wait until marriage.
After all, a man should not trust a woman as much who holds to a lesser standard.
To hold to a lesser standard, is to say she is more likely to some day again find a convenient excuse for bedding someone she is not married to--but this time someone other than her husband.
One should understand, however, that the majority of men do not understand this themselves--but rather they are endowed by evolution with certain emotional guides that tend them in varying degrees, to such judgment (such emotions are often consciously rationalized as "respect").
I would never marry a woman who had sex with me before marriage.
But I would have sex with her.
True
However THIS quote is really "Second class behavior"
I would never marry a woman who had sex with me before marriage.
But I would have sex with her
I aggree 100% with the rest of your post. So many things our great-grandparents knew, that we have rejected or forgotten, that made a society civilized and ordered.
It's a terrible shame, the state we're in.