Posted on 07/05/2005 5:31:57 AM PDT by Bon mots
So tell me how women were able to turn the tables on men when they had little formal education, and more domestic career aspirations?
A lot of women think that way, no question.
Good for you! :)
Yeah, its funny to me the number of couples who seem to have found the 'ho hum' partner of someone else ;)
I just report what i hear. Many prostitutes, in fact, don't actually have intercourse with their johns. Often it's one or two tasks that the men want, and the rest is therapy.
Sounds kooky but word on the street is that it's true.
"most people are in favor of free trade. That large pool of males who left high school and got good high paying jobs with lots of beneifits and pensions and medical insurance, etc, that enabled them to support a non-working wife and 3 kids doesnt exist anymore. "
It's a by-product of free trade, one the free traders don't want to acknowledge. Aside from the drop outs. There are males who just aren't suited for college. Men who are bright, good, decent people who just aren't suited for college. They used to get factory jobs, became good husbands, and raised kids who became good decent doctors, lawyers, and engineers.
The free traders would tell you those folks need to hustle and start their own business. Otherwise, they have no right to reproduce.
You are feeling the effects of this.
I wonder how many free traders had factory worker parents?
Exactly. My friends and I had a conversation about this, and were overheard by our significant others, unknowingly by us, and were nearly crucified.
They could not handle the truth. I told mine to simply read Dr. Laura's book about men and that would answer everything.
I don't know why women work so hard, either. Men work for women. If modern women don't want men anymore, the motivation to succeed is precisely zero.
Sadly, since women (but not men) have a genetic inclination to marry "up", status-wise, and our society considers a college degree a mark of status, that means that millions of these young college-"educated" women will NEVER find a man that meets their "standards". I've also known ultra-successful career types who kept meeting men who ought to have been good matches, yet, somehow they just "couldn't" find any of these decent middleclass men attractive. They were holding out for men of their own "class", but those men are all dating 20 year old models. Oops.
Agreed...and my daughters are the ones who are paying the price.
Scatching your lady's itches is a lot of fun. ;-)
I cant believe (actually I can) that on a topic such as this, with the people involved in the conversation, we all resort to the blame game.
Its all because of women!
No! Its all because of men!
You all can sit back and get mad at each other and further the detriment to the institution of marriage by bad mouthing the opposite sex, but I will not. Those with the social agenda to end marriage are also trying to make the behaviors that are contributing to the downfall of marriage acceptable. (infidelity, dishonesty, selfishness, etc.) Im sure they are sitting back laughing when they can turn those such as Freepers on their own. It is not the fault of men or women solely. There are cases where it has been the fault of the man or woman but is not always the fault of one sex or the other all the time. If you believe that it is, then you have been truly brainwashed (or perhaps it is just a defense mechanism for your own mistakes). The infighting has to stop if we are save the institution of marriage, or any other sacred establishment that is endangered. We have everything to lose, they have everything to win, why help them to defeat us?
This is very true in many cases. There is a pervasive mindset out there that a woman's needs are largely valid, while a man's needs are a bit excessive (and sometimes even suspect). While I don't doubt there is at least some truth to that (as far as sex, us guys can be very demanding - I know I am), it's overstated to the point of not being very helpful to the relationships between the sexes.
Th problem with marriage? Slidden morality. Money is the god to almost everyone these days, whether they realize it or not. Was marriage begun as an economic union? No. Marriage was meant as a 3 way spiritual agreement between a man, a woman and God. God promised to meet our needs if we abide in Him. God's precepts mean nothing to people any more. We are not a moral people any more, so freedom, marriage or any other thing relying on accountability, faith or sacrifice are impossible. We have also given an unholy beurocracy control of divorce and child custody making a slave of one of the divorcees, usually the man.
By in large, that's pretty much the only need a husband can't have satisfied ethically by contracting it out, yet the majority of women are so self-absorbed they can't even get that right... then they wonder why their husbands are so passive!
You're very right. It isn't like 'our team' is better than 'their team' between the genders.
These threads are fun to watch because you do see what rattles some people's cages, what they want, what their fears are, how they see the world and the opposite sex. It's a learning experience. The bitterness in some breaks my heart.
Bottom line, we can't exist without each other (OK, one generation can) but then we're kaput. We truly do need to learn to get along ;)(Oh is that gonna get me ragged!)
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