[Sirloin]

Just remember her's itches too.

Oh I know my wifes itches - and I'm very happy to scratch those itches for her!

My friends have the same view - they'd do anything they were asked of by their wives, but the sentiment isn't reciprocated. They have told me several times I'm lucky to have a woman who isn't ho-hum in the bedroom.

[najida]

Good for you! :)

Yeah, its funny to me the number of couples who seem to have found the 'ho hum' partner of someone else ;)

[chris1]

Exactly. My friends and I had a conversation about this, and were overheard by our significant others, unknowingly by us, and were nearly crucified.

They could not handle the truth. I told mine to simply read Dr. Laura's book about men and that would answer everything.

[HitmanLV]

My friends have the same view - they'd do anything they were asked of by their wives, but the sentiment isn't reciprocated.

This is very true in many cases. There is a pervasive mindset out there that a woman's needs are largely valid, while a man's needs are a bit excessive (and sometimes even suspect). While I don't doubt there is at least some truth to that (as far as sex, us guys can be very demanding - I know I am), it's overstated to the point of not being very helpful to the relationships between the sexes.

[papertyger]

My friends have the same view - they'd do anything they were asked of by their wives, but the sentiment isn't reciprocated. They have told me several times I'm lucky to have a woman who isn't ho-hum in the bedroom.

By in large, that's pretty much the only need a husband can't have satisfied ethically by contracting it out, yet the majority of women are so self-absorbed they can't even get that right... then they wonder why their husbands are so passive!