What exactly are conservative christians shoving down anyone throat?
Morality.
"What exactly are conservative christians [sic] shoving down anyone throat?"
Conservative Christians are usually the ones pushing for "decency" standards on broadcast media (and oddly the radical feminists are with them in that matter). Let the market decide.
I also don't have any real strong opinions on abortion. But have to admit, if I got a woman pregnant, I'd probably suddenly become pro-choice.
I also don't get the whole gay thing. Just treat them like everybody else. No special privileges, no legal disadvantages. I thought the Supreme Court in Lawrence got it exactly right - the government does not belong in the bedroom. I remember when I was growing up in Louisiana oral sex with members of the opposite sex was illegal. That was a law the Christians pushed. And it was complete crap. The state has no business telling me how to have sex. None.