This case is very sad. Too bad the mother did not provide a stable, loving home for that boy. But as you see, she did not use good judgement in picking whom she made kids with.
I wonder if this would have happened if she had used better judgement in picking a husband.
I see... Blame the victim.
The mother is the victim in this case. The blame lies with whom did this, not the mother.
Three people have been murdered, and you want to blame the mother for not choosing a better husband? What the hell is wrong with you!
You know what I wonder? I wonder how it is that people like you feel free to pass judgment on these poor people.
Perfect life?
[This case is very sad. Too bad the mother did not provide a stable, loving home for that boy. But as you see, she did not use good judgement in picking whom she made kids with.
I wonder if this would have happened if she had used better judgement in picking a husband.]
You have GOT to be kidding me!!!! That's the most disgusting post I have seen on the subject all day. Get off your high-horse and think about what you just posted. New flash for ya....You don't get pregnant all by yourself, but you can have a stable home without a man! GEEEZZZZ!!
Geez, I came here to FR to read intelligent commentary on this tragic situation.
If I had wanted ad-hominem attacks on the victims, I could have stayed at the Yahoo! message boards.
What an asinine comment. You have no idea what type of home she provided for her children, you are making a broad statement out of ignorance.
Basically you are blaming the victim for this brutality.
"This case is very sad. Too bad the mother did not provide a stable, loving home for that boy. But as you see, she did not use good judgement in picking whom she made kids with.
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Huh? I sure didn't get that from the story. Are you blaming this poor, dead woman for this? I think that's offensive.
You poor thing. Is your life that sad? Seems to me she was a good mom, Jayden seemed to be well adjusted according to the story, how do you know Jayden's father was not a good guy.
No body is perfect, yellowdoghunter. Monsters, for the most part look just like everyone else, and often have trained themselves to behave in ways that make them appear to be the most harmless and trustworthy individuals on earth.
The Lady was likely no more beguiled by the perp than everyone else who came in contact with him. Wait and hear how shocked everyone who knew him are, to find he is capable of the atrosity he has committed.
Doesn't matter. No one...NO ONE has a right to take a life, the life of a child and that of an unborn child. I hope and pray they did not suffer. God bless all their souls and may the one who did it burn in hell forever and always.
Doesn't matter. No one...NO ONE has a right to take a life, the life of a child and that of an unborn child. I hope and pray they did not suffer. God bless all their souls and may the one who did it burn in hell forever and always.
Maybe if men would stop murdering women at the onset, middle and end of relationships...maybe men should use better judgment, period!
I'm tired of stupid men, thinking they can just kill a woman when she becomes an inconvenience in their lives. They're not man enough to just break up with her or keep their pants zipped.
Lets not blame this women for her and her sons death. Ther only one responsible is the man who did it!
...This case is very sad. Too bad the mother did not provide a stable, loving home for that boy. But as you see, she did not use good judgement in picking whom she made kids with.
I wonder if this would have happened if she had used better judgement in picking a husband......
Wonder if this would have happened if the murderer had used better judgement in picking his girlfriends?
Wonder if this would have happened if the murderer had proven to be a worthwhile man instead of a murderer?
Wonder if this would have happened if the mother had just taken welfare instead of working to support her family?
Wonder if this would have happened if the murderer had just chosen to marry her instead of merely having one night stands?
Of course, the woman is always responsible for bearing the children, raising them, feeding them, and if single, finding a great man to serve as a father. All, while she is working to provide a home.
No responsibility to those who chose to use women for their own sexual gratification and then willfully go on to others. After all - that is their right as men, isn't it?
"This case is very sad. Too bad the mother did not provide a stable, loving home for that boy. But as you see, she did not use good judgement in picking whom she made kids with.
I wonder if this would have happened if she had used better judgement in picking a husband."
He wasn't her husband to my knowledge. The facts aren't in yet. She may have used bad judgement and knew he was a creep, she may have dumped him after she figured it out. We just don't know. He could have been one of those closet psychopaths only a shrink could recognize. My heart goes out to the family, friends and community of this beautiful lady, the unborn child, and her little boy! Prayers for them all!