[af_vet_1981]

That being said, if someone is really selfish enough to think having kids is going to "ruin their life" well, then I am glad they aren't parents.

It is a natural expression of fear from ignorance.

I find it interesting to see the same people years later after they worked through their fears and found their lives enriched by giving life and love to their children.

[exnavychick]

That's true. I spoke a bit hastily, there.