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Married, without children: Finding fulfillment with no kids
Rocky Mountain News ^ | 1/3/05 | Mark Wolf

Posted on 01/03/2005 8:31:56 AM PST by qam1

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To: thesoothsayers

461 posted on 01/03/2005 12:57:02 PM PST by Tax-chick (To turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, and the disobedient to the wisdom of the just.)
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To: qam1
Who knows she could have had an Alex P. Keaton type of kid.

That is true ... one never knows what will happen!

462 posted on 01/03/2005 12:57:48 PM PST by Tax-chick (To turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, and the disobedient to the wisdom of the just.)
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To: Tax-chick

Lets bet tax chicky, how much dough you got to lay on the line? Put up or shut up.


463 posted on 01/03/2005 12:58:53 PM PST by thesoothsayers
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To: thesoothsayers

Bless your bowels, honey ... I just love your sense of humor!


464 posted on 01/03/2005 1:00:14 PM PST by Tax-chick (To turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, and the disobedient to the wisdom of the just.)
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To: KevinDavis

Given the fact that SHE is the one who will be walking around with a huge belly for 9 months, throwing up in the mornings, and experiencing horrendous pain in labor, not to mention changing the diapers, getting up at all hours to feed the baby, and possibly experiencing postpartum depression...

I think you should stop pressuring your wife to have kids. Perhaps she is not being stubborn. Perhaps she is being wise.


465 posted on 01/03/2005 1:00:44 PM PST by Abigail Adams
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To: hopespringseternal
Not having children is a definite sign of immaturity.... the kids came and I found out I only thought I was a grownup...

Let's see:

Mature grownups: Madonna, Jennifer Aniston, Howard Stern, Bill Clinton...

Definfitely Immature: Rush Limbaugh, Condoleezza Rice, Mother Teresa, Linus Pauling...

Learn something new every day, I guess...

466 posted on 01/03/2005 1:00:59 PM PST by Stone Mountain
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To: Tax-chick

OH, and what are the divorce rates for parents with kids today, vs parents without kids? Come on tax chicky, you can find those stats anywhere. So, that must explain why divorced parents with kids, which has done wonders for today's society, hate each other more then they love their kids. I guess you have never had the opportunity to work in a real family atmosphere like Family Court.


467 posted on 01/03/2005 1:01:50 PM PST by thesoothsayers
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To: Abigail Adams; All

Believe me she is being stubborn..


468 posted on 01/03/2005 1:02:21 PM PST by KevinDavis (Let the meek inherit the Earth, the rest of us will explore the stars!)
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To: KevinDavis
Trying to convince wife to start a family. She is being stubborn.

That's a shame that you both don't agree... did you talk about it before marriage?

469 posted on 01/03/2005 1:04:42 PM PST by HairOfTheDog
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To: qam1; Cacique

Much as others on this site may hate us, there are just some of us out here who have no desire to have screaming little brats running around.


470 posted on 01/03/2005 1:05:13 PM PST by Clemenza (President: Liger Breeders of the Pacific Northwest)
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To: KevinDavis

Having a baby is tough, after all! Not only is your body being held hostage for nine months, but relations afterwards can change forever.

I loved every minute, even the semi-nauseous ones, of my pregnancy. My husband, on the other hand, was terrified the entire time. Good luck!


471 posted on 01/03/2005 1:06:15 PM PST by P-Chan Penny (When Informed Women Vote, Republicans Win!!!!!)
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To: Clemenza

It's a shame you view children as screaming brats. :(


472 posted on 01/03/2005 1:07:18 PM PST by exnavychick (Just my two cents, as usual.)
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To: Stone Mountain

If you are going to try to make the case for your maturity, sophistry isn't the best way.


473 posted on 01/03/2005 1:08:18 PM PST by hopespringseternal
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To: HairOfTheDog; All

At first she did, now she wants wait.. I don't know why...


474 posted on 01/03/2005 1:09:30 PM PST by KevinDavis (Let the meek inherit the Earth, the rest of us will explore the stars!)
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To: P-Chan Penny

Thank you..


475 posted on 01/03/2005 1:09:59 PM PST by KevinDavis (Let the meek inherit the Earth, the rest of us will explore the stars!)
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To: Abigail Adams

No offense, but some of the childless folks are coming across as pretty self-righteous as well.

This thread has degenerated into a brawl, and it's a shame.


476 posted on 01/03/2005 1:10:07 PM PST by exnavychick (Just my two cents, as usual.)
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To: hopespringseternal
If you are going to try to make the case for your maturity, sophistry isn't the best way.

Nope - just pointing out the senselessness of your remark...
477 posted on 01/03/2005 1:10:27 PM PST by Stone Mountain
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To: NotJustAnotherPrettyFace
You won't ever catch me griping about the time I spend with my children. I love every minute of driving them to their various extracurricular practices and watching them develop their talents and skills. Not only that, I've gotten involved with their sports and musical events from an administrative angle which has helped me expand my own talents and skills, and even literally paid off when I got hired as the school musical director ;-).

I have friends, who, when they became parents, became astonished at how fast kids grew. This lead them to form a business in used childrens' clothing. A store opened, franchises were created, they quite their day jobs, and eventually sold the chain. People who really "Get into it" are rewarded one way or another.

I am assuming that for the most part, on here, we are all writng to and about "good" parents. But we all see bad ones, too, elsewhere.

478 posted on 01/03/2005 1:11:03 PM PST by Gorzaloon
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These articles happen as specific times.

Now that christmas time is over, it seems the author is attacking people with children as "not smart."

I predict in June when the most weddings occure we will have to suffer the "happy to be single" articles.

This article is a transparent propaganda piece. It has nothing to do with hetersoexual married people having or not having children. IT has EVERYTHING to do with towing the leftist objective of removing children from marriage.

Next articles to look for:

Mr/Ms.'s homosexual lover can't adopt their sex partner's children. (27 states as of no have no same sex recreational sex partner adoption)

Mr./Ms. can't adopt a child because of evil laws. (six states have adoption restrictions against homosexual with two outright bans.)

Families with children are a burden to society.

Housing boom for people without children (homosexuals, never-will marrys)

People without children will raise property values next door, People with children lower your property values.


479 posted on 01/03/2005 1:11:43 PM PST by longtermmemmory (VOTE!)
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At first she did, now she wants wait.. I don't know why...

Because she won't say or you haven't asked? You maybe aren't having the in-depth discussions about it that you should.

480 posted on 01/03/2005 1:12:15 PM PST by HairOfTheDog
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